Hello,
I have been married for about 1.5 years with no kids.
My wife had some past relations with a guy and that remained for about 11 years of long time but they did not get married.
I came to know about their relations before my marriage, but i overlooked it with a thought, that everything would go fine with the passage of time.
But this did not happened, she continued talking to her on phone and meets him when i was in office after marriage. I stays in Delhi whereas my family stays in a different state. There was no one to watch her.
When i came to know about it, i objected and this started causing creating tensions and fights between us. Her mother knows all about this and supports her all the time, whether it's right or wrong.
All because of this, Once, she tried to commit a suicide and slashed her wrist with a knife, I took her to the hospital (i do have the hospital bills). But last week i got a court notice (Kutumb Nyayalay) with Section-125, where she puts all blame on me saying my husband tried to kill me with knife. The instance took place in Feb 2010 and she was living with me thereafter till April and then her parents took her away for a month and then she came back and was living with me till July 24.
She also put an allegation of Dowry demand by me and my parents and my other relatives.
My wife has now filed a case under section-125 HMA for monthly maintenace. Whereas, I still wants her to come back and stay with me, but they want to have everything in black and white.
She has been living seperately since one month, but the court notice reflects, that she is been living seperately with her parents since April 2010.
She's also blaming my parents, my brother and the my other relatives for the Cruelity and threat to drag us for Section 498A.
I have few proofs to submit:
1. Past emails and messenger chats (dirty)
2. Phone bill, which reflects she used to talk to him overnight (after marriage)
3. Her dirty photographs with another guy (after marriage)
Please help and advise as what should i do now.
thanks!
