Rupam ji,
You said ........... grossly i know that even if husband don't want divorce.. indian courts will grant divorce according to wife's wish...........Not always
'Keeechad me dhaasa hua har koi uuuus mein doooob nahi jataaa.........................Wohi doooooooob jata hai jo jyada ya galat tarike se................ hat pair hilata hai ..................
Have faith and patience...........be honest.................shed away your ego..........don't keep attachment to end result............
Go to private councellor..................b'cos you pay them............................you don't pay to court councellors.......govt pays them ..........and it's the govt who sets the targets to them to clear off the cases.........Judiciary is already taking steps to reduce backlog (without increasing the head count of judges!!!! .......................then one may easily understand................ 'by which metherd?' the backlog may be getting reduced!!! India had tried in a similar way to curb on population growth a few decades back!!! )...................................you shudn't blame them if they try also for amicable break-up..........it's not their mistake that ..............you both............... dragged the dispute till it reached to court........but still have faith
..........Law can't help you to save marriages.............law is meant to give relief to wronged party/victim................. on facts and evidence.