Hi,
I'm really in a very frustrating situation. I had a credit card and was paying my dues regularly but due to recession i lost my job and could not make payments anymore. Now a debt collector is harassing my mother (who by the way has heart problems and is not supposed to be stressed out), she does not live with me but they call her neighbours (I dont know how they got the numbers), then they told the neighbours all about my debt, which i feel is a breach of my confidential agreement with the bank, so the neighbour gave my mother's tel number and they start harassing her and interrogating about her income and how much money she has etc, which i feel is uncalled for as the debt is in no way connected to her. When my husband contacted them and told them not to pester my mother, they finally stopped. But now after 4 months of silence, they started again by sending her continuous telegrams.
I do intend to pay back but the bank have kept on increasing the interest that it makes me impossible to pay 10 times more than what i owe them, at the same time being unemployed. I dont know what to do, please somebody help me with some advice, i dont want them to stress out my mother due to her illness and old age. Is there any way to stop them harassing her. They have my email, landline telephone n mobile but they pester her instead.