Sanjeev,
I advise you to live separately for another 3 months. Let her stay at her parent’s home during that period.
As far as Jail & Punishment is concerned, it does not attract any Penal Punishment. You cannot be jailed for this act. The Act , if proved, amount to cruelty, and enable your wife to get Divorce.
I notice many a marriage broke down on such initial stage of talking.
She stated the word without meaning it, and in form of light joke. If he age is below 23, they use such words with their college friends, and repeated it as you come closer to her. There is no intention. It is accidental.
Assumi has shown the correct direction. That is the chance to prove yourself.
Giving you a recent example that caused their Divorce, for no reason :
: "One such fresh wife, suddenly told,” My college class mate Pramjit is 56 kg, whitish, very handsome, tall, slim and we enjoyed his company, &I likes him so much. "
The Husband took it for granted that I have less height, I am blackish, and she must have affairs with the so called Pramjit. He left the interest in her, and despite her explanation that she just said it casually, and they were just class room friend, and had never gone alone anywhere, and never meet that person outside college compound, it did not work. They fight in Court for 5 years, and paid **L for Divorce and separated, wasting their 5 years of young age life, and business loss. Now both are remarried to different persons, and living very happy life.
It can be the same in your case. It can happen.
But Both of you need separation for 3 months, Rethink, and do not punish her for a very small mistake of her. During that period, get council ling, Talk with others, and if you can forget and forgive, nothing like that. After all, she came to you with lot of hope, expectation, and you have no moral right to spoil the entire life of an innocent girl. think of her family, what pain they will undergo. Think in case same thing happens with your sister or daughter??
The cunning girls do lot of harm, lot of undesirable activity, but speak so sweet, and such a lie, that your never understand her cunningness, and they led very happy life, because such girls are smart and know, how to keep you pleased and happy. In fact such ladies are dangerous, and can change their color at any time.
Your wife do not seem to be of that type, and hence deserve to be forgiven, and to be happy with you.
As you said you did not consume marriage, the moment in honey-moon time in hotel at hill station, it also means, you did not behave as a prudent man. A masculine man, in such atmosphere, within few days of marriage, will first get s*x at all cost, even if she insult. Sex is a very powerful motivator of Life, and stand in First No. 7 necessary elements for success in life. It sees nothing, no words, no boundary, not even her resistance, and the force is so blind, so powerful, and it would have overruled her comments.
Remember what you said earlier:: you stated"
" my necessary weight required was actually more than 90 kgs as per my height,so not selected in Airport authority??
i got married a year ago, but we are not compatible with each other, i eventually wanted to seek a divorce, but my wife is not ready to grant it, and doesnt want to do a MCD, i have lost interest in this relationship and wish to move ahead in life, but as my divorce is difficult, i cannot remarry with the girl i wish to, hence i would like to seek your valuable advice on this suggestion
i wish to remarry again, but as divorce is impossible as wife is not willing, i wish to get converted to muslim religion, which, according to my knowledge, permits remarriage.
1) can my first wife take any legal objection on me getting converted to muslim religion.
2) does she also automatically get converted to muslim religion if i get converted legally
3) is remarriage possible, without divorce. if get converted to muslim religion,
So forget all that, rethink , Marriage teaches us to sacrify for each other and fulfill the desire of your wife, even at your cost. Try to give happiness, and it star from home. God Bless You.
Adv Shroff
02-01-2012.
