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My husband now wants to file a separate case against this false statement.

Shouldn't he ?

being a lawyer giving many excuses which are getting accepted.

courts rely on evidences & merits of parties.

I want to file a divorce case too, but my husband is not ready for the same and taking every step to delay all the matters and filing many false cases against me and my family.

If cases are false, it can be easily proven.

all the cases are filed in Delhi by him

who filed the first case ? you / husband ?

I have declared abt my job everywhere, and want to do the same in dv and 125 too, however my lawyer is not supporting me and not ready for the same.

For delaying the matter, my husband and his advocate misses many dates and after that just submit a application that they were sick and even after argements no step has been taken. almost 3 yrs have gone.

I have filed cases first in mumbai in feb and mar 09, and all the false complaints like in 156(3) and sec 9 has been filed by my husband in oct 10, and mentally harrassing me and my family.

Pls advise what shuld i do.

What Meena is saying is that at the time of applying for interim maintenance she did not have job, but subsequently got a job. She is asking if she should file an application to place the same on record. 

If my reading is wrong, Meena, please correct me. 

Most advocates always suggest and therefore mislead that women should not declare that they are engaged in job. They possibly do not have time to build arguments for a working woman for claiming maintenance. It takes fine reading and non conventional interpretation of the maintenance related laws, as also producing good judgements where working women have been granted maintenance. 

Dear Meena!

Be clear....whats ur aim? U have started working, hubby is himself a lawyer....will use every possible tact to harass u further............path is very tortuous 2 get TIMELY justice from courts...........Give Mutual Consent a thought to resolve the issues amilcably........may be money matter......may be divorce........may be living 2gather!

@Shreya Suhas,
No. She did not declare her job purposefully as she is giving this excuse "The lawyer doesn't want me to". 

Dear Meena,
You filed the first FALSE cases, now it's your turn to face the consequences. I do not know why can't women just take divorce with dignity? Why do you always want husband's money COME WHAT MAY? And if you are not capable enough of raising your child (by earning enough for both of you), why don't you give the custody to your husband? Why do you want to have the cake and eat it too? 

YOU are the lawyer's client, not lawyer yours. So he/she will do what you will say strongly. They will file another case on you anyway if you hide your job status. 

Only remedy: Talk to him, tell him to get a mutual consented divorce, tell him that you don't want his money - so both of you should take each other's cases out. If you think you can raise the child, have him, otherwise give the child custody to him. 

@Meena,
Dear Sister,
Most of the time, Wives don’t realize the consequences and files Cases one after the Other, thinking they are Superior supported by Laws. But sadly they get trapped in the long run. Without thinking of out come
1) By the time trial starts, Concurrently Their Hair Starts getting Grey / White.
2) They Loose the Golden period (26-40 yrs Approx) Suppose to Spend with their Partners,
3) Since Our Great Puroosh Pradhan Culture, Realizing real face of Girl, as Time passes with Trials Her False Allegations Come One after the Other Uncovers Her Cruel Face in Society.
4) Her younger Sister gets Stuck, since no one will Indulge in Family where their One Daughter Already facing Court.
5) After Trials Over, Acquitted or Compromised, It ends up with Divorce.
6) Same people will not be with her at that time (Age 60 ~ 70) when she was being misguided, there she feels Alone & Loneliness.
7) Ought to Face Continues Suspicious Eyes or Society and More Others humiliation which can't be explain in Words?

So why can't they Understand, Even they win or loose the case. Either side they are at loss in the end?
 

she always asked me to hide the facts as she said these cases are made this way only. 

she has misguided you.

my advocate is not supporting me, 

its time to change ur counsel

My husband is also a advocate.

My husband's advocate doesnt want this matter to get settle down

i wonder, why is he paying other advocate ?

i expect him to give what my parents have given me in my marriage and a house which has been bought by my father, but he has registered the house in joint name and today not ready to give even 50%.

assuming what u say is true, u have right to get back ur stree-dhan & the house. If u have filed 498a for the same, then u r on the right track. If the husband is misbehaving, he should be punished. (Punishment should be severe; assuming that he, himself is an advocate). Depending upon the merits of ur case, u will get justice.

But u know, Indian courts run trials with a speed of a Sloth !

better, solve the dispute mutually. I appreciate ur view of denying maintenance. Fight back for your rights.

Best wishes.

I totally agree, as my husband himself says kannon to hum vakilo ke haatho ki kathputli hai, hum jaise chahenge nachayenge....i too want to end up everything in a simple and smooth way .... however they dont want to return anything and as he knows ki kaise bachna hai.he has lodged a false case that everything has got stolen by me and my parents and he doesnt have anything. Really dont understand what shuld be my next step.. cant fight more as i have to think for m son....he is not even ready for divorce as his advocate says hume divorce nahi dena...i have told them very clearly that i dont want anything frm tem except the things which are mine....but it seems now it has become a fight of their prestige ki advocate hoke haar kaise gaye... so they say tumhe to hum itne cases mein fansa denge ki tum ghutne tekne pe majboor ho jaoge... no end to all this.

Then how can someone say that we will get justice and courts and laws are there to help women. Just bcoz i m working, it cant be so big offence, after all i have to take care of ny son'e studies and other activities too.

what shuld i do..... As he and his advocate is in total mood of taking revenge from me and i dont have even a single penny to waste.

the husband is misusing his knowledge. But he should not forget - Truth can not be changed.

Please submit ur query at the Expert section too.

i am giving link :

https://www.lawyersclubindia.com/experts/default.asp