Hi all,
I got married by this Mar 2012,i spend the entire amount (Rs.5,50,000) to my marriage . i never expect any of dowry or any things while the time of my marriage from my wife family , now also i am in the same mind.
but now my wife and her family are expecting the some gold chain or ornaments from mine for her(my wife) .
while you reading this , definitely u will laugh. & some other expectations from my wife family are as follows.
* she expecting to spend some maintenance amount to her family from mine.
* she wants to go her home for each and every month.(nearly 370 km's from our current residential to her home town)
* each and every day we got the type of harsh conversations due this expectations.
Reason why i am not interested with her family .
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* i am not interested with her family due to her sister is getting connection with the guy who is already married ,
& her sister have the 4Yrs child from that already married guy.Now my wife expecting
some maintenance amount to her sister child .
* Before marriage i clearly explained my view about her family ( (i.e) i am not willing to spend money to your's sister & all)
* After marriage now my wife expecting some maintenance amount to her family on the monthly basis.
My assumptions:
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* I am very frustrated with this silly expectations ( like Gold chain , maintenance amount ) from the very first month.
* I decided to apply for a divorce due to these expectations , bcoz after 5 or 10 years i am not able to predict
what are they (my wife & her family) expectations.
* I am not sure whether divorce will do the favour for me.
* she is not willing to work .this is not a problem for me.
Any of one pls guide me what i need to do for this type of issues & complications ...
Thannks in advance,