Love marriage

hello akhil i am not a lowyer, i dont know anything about law but after i read your message i am sure you belongs to a good (sanskari) family. So please talk to your parents and tel them to convence the girl family because marriage is not between two its between the family also. god bless you.

As you are both adults nobody can object to your court marriage or do anything legally.

Only problem is your lawyer father ( or should i put is your would be FIL )  

1.After your court marriage your lawyer father will try to instigate your wife or try to break apart your marriage by instigating her as you have married without their permission . As long as your would be wife is under your control there is no problem . Marraige is a matter of compromises . As long as the two of you can adjust its fine . The moment the father in law takes control of his daughter or maybe she goes to her parents place for the first delivery  and instigates her to file cases and she does so and does not return back with the child than the hell begins to get loose and love takes it toll . 

2. Lawyer FIL may  file a case of False 498 A against you that is harassment for dowry . ALthough we all know it would be a false case . Its like you are torturing your wife for Dowry . As soon as the FIR is filed the first thing the police come and arrest you they dont even see or check if the complaint is false . Once you go to jail you are depressed and your status is lost in society and you even loose respect for your wife  .

3. Next FIL may  file False Domestic violence case . And wife takes custody of your child , you have to pay her maintanence etc .

4. And remember these cases go on for years .Alternatively study L.L.B it will help you counter your FIL in law . 

so think with your mind and not from your heart , although life is a gamble and you have face life which ever way it turns, since its our destiny 

 This is my point of view others may please advice our lover boy with their views although they may defer in opinion .

thats only i can do is wait till my parents make her parent to get convienced for this relation....so that all sets in a right way. and we able to get all the blessings . hope sab aacha aacha ho... thanks for the suggestion.  

While you are waiting for the two families to agree to your marriage, do enroll yourself for LL.B degree and complete the law degree and open below office opposite to your would be FIL’s bungalow. 

Now Law of status will take control of harmonious life forever between the two lovers J

@Akhil, to file  these cases a girl need not to be lawyer's daughter!

A good father will see his daughter's happiness only.!but it is good if marriage held at both family's consent.Try for this ..you both are too young now to maary..wait for few years.

Originally posted by : Ranee.......
	you both are too young now to maary..wait for few years.

The boy is 24 and the girl is 22 ....quite mature for them to legally Maary .  

I know they are legally fit to marry..I am telling about mental maturity..

@ Ranee 

OMG law states that children after the age of 18 they are to be treated as Major's and they are of age to form their own independent decisons .Boy 24 and girl 22 you mean to say they are mentally unmatured than as per you at what age would you term them as mentally matured .  .

@ stanley

sir what you think , what should be the step we have to take?

maturaty comes with age. and i know what about my maturaty level. thats why i am here to find out of the right way. 

@ ranee

according to our family, this is the age they just start searching for bride. and my studies are completed. 

this is only the time , max . i can wait for 2-3 months. not more then that.

Rightly said by priya. it is bonding of two families not two lovers. Try to convince  ur FIL  to avoid  future  litigation .

@ akhil 

The call is yours 

I don't think so there will be any problem, you guys are not under age you can easily do the court marraige you only need a witness.

Hi, I really appreciate the advise by Priya and Stanley. I wish every one gives this type of advise to such young lovers who are about to get married against the wishes of their parents and are not in a position to think about their future One can not always take the advantage of law regarding the marriageable age. May god help you in bringing the parents of both boy and girl together....D. Keshav