Husband is asking me to join him now? what to do tell me pls

Originally posted by : Bhanu Priya

1. Since i have filed RCR asking my husband to to take me back, and since he is calling me to join him, can i join him with all the cases pending agains him and his family Members. if he will not agree for this what can i do here ?
Take: With a sword put on head of one spouse matrimony is not furthered. Ask yourself same question; will you agree to re-join husband who files cruelty cases / wants divorce from upon his saying that I will continue cases yet re-join me? 
 
2. Previously he was staying in a Big city with a very good job with good salary, it seems he lost his job, and now he is working in an very small city with very very less salary.
Take: That is your personal issue if you see yourself sustaining in small city then act accordingly OR if you worried that high claims earlier put in S. 24 / S. 125 will now be adjudicated based on his 'change of circumstances' then it is for a Court to adjudicate the matter based on material records of parties and we cannot comment much further. 
 
3. Now i am have joined PG and cannot leave in between and join my husband, can i ask my husband to join me to the place where i am right now. or can i tell the court i can join him only after i complete my PG.
Take: Once a spouse puts RCR then it is serviced un-conditionally and for the same it is you who has issued Notice on a RCR so you cannot put such conditions.
 
4. Will the court force me to join my husband by withdrawing all the cases & join him to the place currently where he is working immediately ?
Take: No. It is your RCR least Court will give verdict in your favor and it is your will to re-join failing which it becomes in-operational for all future purposes (litigation).  

5. He has said the same thing in DV and crpc 125 cases that she can join me after with drawing the cases  against him ? will the court force me to withdraw these cases also, and will not pass any maintenance to me. 
Take: What he says is right. To re-start any spouse needs no fear slate and it is obvious that in reverse situation you could have said same.

6. What are the other implications that will arise if i like to withdraw the cases and join my husband.
7. what will happen if i tell the court that i will not join my husband and continue fighting the cases ?
Take: Since you don’t have source of income now-a-days colly. summery for yours only pondering now are as follows;
A. withdraw RCR with which S. 24 HMA also gets withdrawn and anyhow it is you who wanted husband returns hence Court will not force you to rejoin.
B. continue with S. 125 CrPC with which eventually you may get some maintenance.
C. continue while in PG S. 498a / DV to their legal end.
D. Your situation points to Mutual Consent Divorce for a reason that you are empowering yourself more while other spouse is getting stagnant reeling under below half dozen family law cases minus rosy finances to give you tough contest.

With above micro-view you will not be surfing in duality of mind since you have spent huge amount on legal fees against a husband who once was earning good who now is living on sustenance money r/w four years separation which shows marriage bond breakdown.

Simultaneously your PG will eventually get completed and then you can make a wise decision.

However do ask question yourself what @ Helping Hand asked you in his first reply which hurriedly you responded.