Dear Sir/Madam
my brother got married through a simple hindu marriage , 5 months back.
after staying for 5 days/nights, the girl went to parental house, for 'Phera'.
on the 1st night she asked brother:
1. she didnt want marriage, it was her father's will. (she is very obedient to her parents)
2. she will consumate only when she wants a child.
for those 5 nights, they slept in separate rooms, and in day time, talked rarely.
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after reaching there, she told parents the boy did 'jabar dasti' which is False.
and she can not trust him, to lead her life with him.
to clear the matter and confusion-
we all tried to talk to her, her parents, went to their place, the boy also went alone to their place (4 times),
to see what is the reason, to sort the matter..........but she and her parents are not letting the relation go on in normal manner.
she , her parents have never tried to call/talk to us here, in order to sort the matter.
when ever the boy went there, they ALL, misbehaved with him, shouted on him, said that you dont have manners, you dont have sense, you are rigid, you do nt know how to behave with wife----- this and that.
we now want to end this relation, no hope from girl or her parents.
both parties do not match at all.
can we file for annulment? and how?
what are the Options for us?
brother is living with my mother (a widow).
I am away from Delhi (our city).
Marriage took place in Chandausi (near Moradabad, U.P.), the girls town.
Her father is a local politician, rough man and never listens to us, or see sense in our REQUESTS
to send the girl back to her matrimonial house.
We are unable to understand WHAT do they want from the relation,
neither they are asking for Divorce, nor asking to go ahead with the relation, and never have talked to us.
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We are afraid if we will file for annulment/divorce, or send any notice to them,
they may put FALSE cases on us, and put us in jail,
I request you to kindly Guide us how to proceed from here,
because we will have to take a step forward.
Thank you!
Sonali Joshi.