gautam (not disclosed) 23 October 2013

Filing divorce caese - advice needed

hi members,

pls suggest, i want to file a divorce case against my wife, is it better for the new law on irbm to get passed and then decide further action or can i go ahead and file my divorce case anyways

further, how do i collect proofs against my wife (grounds will be mental cruelty). she is not taking the first step and doing things to anger me so as i go and file the case

how can i do recording without the knowledge of my wife

i am planning to go to counselling center, want to know if i can record our discussion with counsellor where we both wll be honest in our discussino

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ram sharma (Software Engineer) 23 October 2013

hello brother,

if you have valid ground and proof then only you can get divorce from wife or by MCD. In India it is very difficult to get divorce specially for husband. and if this IRBM law passed then we will left with no option.

Friend if your matter can be solved amicably solve it. its very difficult in courts as i'm going through same problem. you not only waste money on litigation but also you have to pay to your wife if not working and more importantly wastage of precious time and age. So, its my personal advice try to sort out by talking to your elders. in my case earlier my wife wants to come back and settle but it was my ego so i don't bring her back knowing that she was good towards me and with the time if i give her time she will listen on me and now situation is that she becomes adamant and don't want to settle instead wants to harass me and got interim maintenance . Problem was just fight between her and my parents and now i'm going through such trauma that everybody is enjoying except me and now its time of festivals everybody celebrating but i'm alone. so its my personal experience better sort out through elders there is nothing in courts except wastage of money and precious time.

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