I am a software professional got married 3 years back have 2 years old son. last month I have lodged a complaint against my husband for physical and mental harassment along with dowry demand. we are living separately from past 1.8 months. He has sent court notice saying come and stay with me along with the child or go for mutual divorce. My husband is very abusive towards me and my family members he has insulted me in public many times and when I was with him he always used to asked me yeh kiska beta hai and now when I am staying away from him and started concentrating on my work he started spreading romours and also mentioned in panchayat that I am having affair with someone that is why I am staying away from him. Even he mentioned this in last to panchayats. We already had 3 rounds of panchayat and in that my husband had said so many lies after hearing all those lies I am ashamed of my self that I have married to such cheap mentality person who can go to any cheap level to prove me wrong. I have discussed about his behaviour with psychetrist they said this kind of behaviour is called abusive cycle behaviour which can be treated after conselling but he is not ready for it and says you have no shame you insult your husband by saying mental. He threatened me that he will torture more he was doing if I will go to my partents home for dushara. I was fed up with his behaviour he used slang words calling names abused on my physical appearance and his behaviour has reached peak point that he told me on my face that I will torture you more than I have done before. How to handle this in police station. Police has called his family he has changed his mobile no. They are not coming. how should I go about this. As I have a kid I need him his father but only if his mental condition is treated. Please guide me on this.
