Can a cheating and emotional loss case be filed

Too long a story, consult a local lawyer.

In short : I am in love relationship with a guy since 5 years. I had studies committment. When he proposed me for marraige he did saying that I will wait for you even for 5 years. So, we got engaged in a small family gathering in October 2010. But due to my studies the marraige has been postponed.  He had been making love and marraige promises all this while till 2nd April 2015. He kept saying I am all your and waiting for you. But then he suddenly disappeared and blocked all my and family phone numbers and all other sources to reach him. On 26th April 2015 I came to know from some sources that he is marrying another girl. Without giving me any clue he fixed his marraige with another girl while keeping promising me for marraige.

Can I file a case of cheating betrayal causing emotional and psychological trauma and loss against him.

Can I get an order from court to hold on his marraige with that other girl until he comes in open (as he is hiding away) and gave me explaination of why he cheated me and my family. Can I get any kind of legal help.

if you have proofs for the engagement done between you and him and the promise he made to you and your family then you can file a complaint against him in the police station

Thank you saravanan sir. I have proofs of his love and marriage promises in the form of I have proofs in the form of chats, messages, emails, skype chats, number of phone calls, bills he paid on my behalf, gifts.... and of engagement in the form of photographs....

I came to know from some sources they are going to marry very soon and possibily he had done the engagement with other girl yesterday.

Can I get an order from court to hold on his marraige with that other girl until he comes in open (as he is hiding away) and gave me explaination of why he cheated me and my family.  ??

@Ananaya,

Did your elders discuss the matter with them??

Did you have any physical relation with him?

You will agree marriage is by mutual consent and cannot be thrust upon, although he must be punished for keeping you waiting for such a long time after engagement, yet it is better to settle the matter amicably.

What you should understand is that the boy in not worthy of marriage after all your narrations. You and your family should forget him and move ahead in life. If that untrustworthy boy had not married you, you should take it as a blessing in disguise. I do not think that you will be happy even if he marries you. Even at the age of 33 you may be able to get a good match. There are many women these days who marry late. Remember your present feelings are only temporary. If you take away your mind from the episode, you will soon forget and return to normal. Taking any kind of criminal or civil case against him will not only drag on for years but your emotional misery also will continue.

Thanks Vashista Sir.

He and his parents are hiding from us. After much struggle once my parents and relatives caught them at their residence and they completely refused to get him married with me. 

Guy has never given me a clue that he his looking for other girls. I have asked him number of times if he is looking for other girls but he kept saying I should trust him and he is not doing any such thing. And then suddenly he disappeared and not coming out in open.

He is telling everybody that he has moved on ? How can he move on without informing me. He should have told me and discussed with me if he want to marry elsewhere. But he simply hide and break all connections to reach him.

My concern is he kept me engaged for so long. Earlier threatened me also for if I try to marry any other guy. I have grown my 5 years with him and am of age 33 now and have not seen any other guy because of him.

You are saying to settle it amicably. But how to do that when these people are hiding. They have blocked all our sources to reach them. I want to bring the guy infront of us and explain.

I also came to know he is getting married to that girl very soon. But as they are hiding we cant talk or discuss to them. Please suggest something to bring the guy face to face with me and my family.

No physical relations were there between us but a lot of emotional and psychological involvement.

You can lodge a criminal complaint against him with the local police who will register a case u/s 417 of IPC and will take him into task.  If there was s*xual relationship between you both, an additional seciton for rape can also be filed against him.  If the police are inactive on your complaint, you can file a private complaintwith the judicial magistrate court u/s 156(3) cr.p.c. to direct the police to carry out investigation and register FIRagainst him under the relevant sections of law.   Consult a local lawyer and proceed.

Act as per the advises of the above experts.

Thanks Kalaiselvan Sir.

I came to know that he got marrided to that girl on 3rd May. It was their scheduled engagement on that day as told by a source and then that source said that they were scared of any action to be taken from me and my family, so they did marraige that day itself. Marraige was done in small family gathering and even their relatives and friends were not aware of it.

He is still hiding away. Not replying to any of my emails, blocked all our fone numbers, not picking our calls from any other numbers. 

Girls mother and sister told me that we have been successfull in breaking your relationship

Could I take any action against them now ? Please suggest. He has left me with such a pain for life and emotional trauma.

IPC- 417 gives only the punishment for cheating. It can be applied only if cheating is proven in the first instance. There are several sections on cheating in IPC. You will have to go to a lawyer, who will have to rake his brain to find out whether your case can fit into any of the sections. Then he will have to argue in the court and the judge will have to agree that you have been cheated. Cases in courts will be frustrating. It can take years and your ex-fiance would have so many children by that time. Were there any transactions in anticipation of marriage? Did you have physical relationship with him?

When two persons are in love, each will feel that the other person is sent by God to him/her. Not only films, even the poets of yore like Shakespeare,  Kalidasa, Harshavardhana and many others have euologised 'divine love'. Many murders and suicides also take place. But in practical terms a break-up can complicate matters only if one is married and have children. Otherwise it is an irrational feeling. If you break away your mind from that boy with determination, you can forget him in no time and return to normal. Dont't think you are  old. You will find a better person than that fellow and marry him.