Need guidance and suggestions

Hi Kunal....

Be cool. Please read the following fact and keep in your mind always. Never forget it.

"When there is no substance, the only best strategy available for wives and their parents is to frustrate and humiliate husband and his family by throwing papers that has mud/stone/rock written on them."

Judges and all lawyers are aware of this fact very well.

So, never ever get upset about what your wife or her father saying or writting.

Let your BPL FIL prove that he payed 22 Lakhs to you. 

22 Lakhs claim by your FIL is like trying to throw ROCK at you by throwing "a paper written rock in it".

Do not file prejury on your FIL but just present the facts to Judge.

If you loose your cool and get frustrated, your wife will convert the same into money.

Just stay calm and keep producing facts to the judge.

Assuming you are lucky to have a neutral judge, you will get right justice.

You can expect the best to be "zero maintenance" to your wife.

But, in reality, expect that, judges will award certain amount anyway proportional to your documented earning.

Judges will surely account for earning capability of wives and deduct the same from the maintenance amount.

More than any of these cases, you should concentrate on whether you want to unite with your wife or not.

If you have lost all love and trust on your wife, then, execute every strategy, to pay some lump sum money and get MCD or compromise divorce and move ahead.

Fighting or trying to teach lessons to wives is a criminal waste of time.

Such wives and their family can harass you without any remorse.

Dear Prasad,

Appreciated and thanks for giving the guidance,motivation,rule and time. 

Do we have any judgement of High Court says.. Women working in past should not entilted to get Interim ?If court will bound me to pay maintenance in Dv act ,then again i have CRPC 125 pending for next month that mean i also have to pay for 125 case as well .. so drone ...

Yes Kunal. There are many judgements where it is mentioned that "capable wife" cannot claim interim maintenace.

I presented those judgements but still judge gave me an order to pay 15K per month as IA.

And I believe judge accounted for her earnign capability as other wise he could have ordered me to pay 30K per month.

@Prasad,

So have you gone through with the revision petition in high court to lower down the interim ? If you will keep on paying 15k then ur FIL family will delay the case just to harras you & 15k is not a lower amont to pay her just to sit at home chatting on facebook ? 

That is right Kunal. I am paying them to harass me. That's how our marital legal system is.

I wanted to go for revision in HC but my lawyer advised against it saying that the amount is reasonable and there is a chance that HC will reject the revision petition or sometimes may increase the amount as well.

So, I am now concentrating on the divorce case that is based on mental cruelty.

They just want to drag the case so that I may come forward to pay their huge alimony demand.

But I am fighting on merits.

Perfect.. Do not go for compromise with money. Let them come for compromise without money. 

Logically : 

15K per month

Divorce on groun of Mental Cruelty : Takes 3 -4 years easily. 

Monetary Loss : 15k for 36 months =540,000

Lawyer fee : ( ....  ??  i dnt know how muh are you paying  )

Count : How much the total  have you paid , and will pay ? 

Seems we land up with no where .. at the end value is 0. You  will not pay to your wife for Big alimony but other hand u have already paid the huge amount brother. 

Your lawyer has advised you to go for mental cruelty divorce  so he can heavier his pocket instead of advising you to find the evidences against your wife ??

Regarding the maintenance, irrespective of the wife's earning capacity, the husband has to maintain her till she is really earning. The facts and circumstances of a woman may not be that good as for a man to earn immediately after leaving the matrimonial home. Certainly the court takes into account the earning capacity and the work experience of the woman and also the earnings and expenses of the man too before any order for maintenance is passed.

You are in a state of frustration and hence concentrating only on the fact of maintenance. If you better concentrate more on the remaining cases too you would be relieved greatly of all these and be able to maintain calm.

If the cases are false, she may not be able to prove anything and sure to loseeverything in her life except the fact to live at the mercy of your maintenance.

So better fight on your merits regarding all the cases for a quick relief.

& how are you saying that you are fighting your case on merits ? What merits are u fighting on when u have loosed saving your 15k

Till you are divorced she is your wife and she has all the rights to be maintained.

Agree with experts.

Kunal ... You are right on the "time that I will loose" part.

And I am fighting based on the proof that I have of her cruelty.

Wish you the good luck ..