Lifeasitis (private) 30 October 2016

Child custody

Hi Respected lawyers,

I need your expert opinion. My husband is constantly threatening these days that he will take my child (boy) as soon as his fifth birthday comes. He left us for more than a year when my child is born and staying together for last couple of years. Its me who is taking care of all child responsibilities. He only comes late to home, never stays in home much for that matter. We dont have any kind family life from long time(physical/emotional). He is just staying to take child away after his 5th birthday.

Is it possible one fine day he will take child away and I have to roam around courts to get my child which will take many years, am sure. How can i safe guard me and my child in this scenario? Is 5 years defined in law or he is just threatening me? If one day he takes away, can i go to his home and get my child back without any problems? Please help with your answers soon.

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If he kidnaps the kid it won't count as crime. You will have to file custody case in court of law to repossess the kid. The process of course is lengthy n may drag tjll kid turns 18. Shame on ppl like u n ur husband. Pls adjust with husband. Don't go court.

(Guest)

No remedies for matrimonial problems in court. Everyone will suffer. I being lawyer couldn't get custody of my kid, just imagine what you will have to go through.

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(Guest)

No remedies for matrimonial problems in court. Everyone will suffer. I being lawyer couldn't get custody of my kid, just imagine what you will have to go through.

(Guest)

No remedies for matrimonial problems in court. Everyone will suffer. I being lawyer couldn't get custody of my kid, just imagine what you will have to go through.

(Guest)

No remedies for matrimonial problems in court. Everyone will suffer. I being lawyer couldn't get custody of my kid, just imagine what you will have to go through.

(Guest)

Best way is to adjust with husband or give child away without creating scene and go for visitation rights which Court will gladly give to u. Or another option is same other way round. Or last option can be going for shared parenting. For this also adjustment required. Or there is eternal option of ghooming to court for next 15 years for all 3 of u ! Choice is yours!!!

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A walk alone (-) 31 October 2016

As you say"He left us for more than a year when my child is born " Have you try to find out reason behind your husband behavior? No person can do this without any reason? Have you ever try to settle this matter mutually? First you should try to find out reason behind this . Talk him in peace full manner and try to sort out problem . Remember one thing if you go lawyer he may suggest you to file many case. But results will be a big zero. Family matter can never solve in court. You should try to reconcile with your husband for good future of your child. Otherwise moving in court you will ruin your own child life.

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Kunuthur Srinivasa Reddy 01 November 2016

The child/children require care,comfort and company of both the parents. For the sake of offsprings, it is imperative that both the parents come to a compromise. No marriage can last without adjustment and accommodation. The time is the best healer with potential to solve problems and issues. This advice might sound theoretical and impractical. But, parents have to sacrifice their self interest fro sake of children to serve as role models to their children.

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