Hi,
My name is kumar, I got married 7 years back and we have 1 daughter, her age is 6 years.
My wife is immature and has some psychological problem ,due to my job we have been living in separate city, but when my mother or sister comes to my home she never compromise on anything , she talks with them anything without any respect . so they stopped coming to my home, I have no brothers hence I have to take care of my mom also, so when I tried to make her understand to bring my mom to my home, every time it became a war and from the day 1 every time she has been screaming and threatening me with her suicidal attempts to control me, gradually for her it became a weapon to ride on me for all the discussions, all of my neighbours are well aware of her behaviour as she screams like that.
After 2 years of my marriage I called their parents and mentioned I want divorce as in all discussions.she is screaming and threatening me by doing suicidal attempts , Her family members blindly supports her whether it is bad or good, but after having lengthy discussions her father & my wife agreed on white papers by mentioning that till date she threatens me with her suicidal attempts and it won’t repeat in future. I still have those letters.
But after 6 months she again continues with same behavior, I have been trying to change her but didn’t succeed . Last month she went to her hometown and given harassment complaint on me in police station, FIR is not filed yet, Upon recieving call from PS I went to there and explained about her behavior and asked them enquire with neighbors, they did enquiry and found my words are true, So now in PS they asked her to compromise with me but I mentioned I am not ready to take her back as she actually harassing me with her suicidal attempts and with all of these false complaints. Since i am not agreeing to take her back, now inspector started supporting her and forcing me to take her back and saying my wife can file many cases on me .
Please help me, I wanted to teach a lesson to her and her family , their hairs should become white in fighting with me.
I am ready to fight with her , do I have rights?
What is the best approach to start? Should I send any legal notice or should I complain in PS to file any case on her ?
What are the chances of getting divorce with the proofs(Letters written by her father & my wife) I have?
My wife is post graduate but she didn’t shown any interest in doing job though previously I asked her to do a job, she preferred to ride on me only. My salary is 65k per month, and every month home loan EMI is 45K? how much maintenance should I pay ?
Do I have any rights to get custody of my 6 years daughter?
Thanks in advance.
Regards,
Kumar.
