Respected lawyer,
I am the party in person. I have got maintenance order of 15 K for me and 10 K for my son under crmsc 125. My husband earns close to 1.5lacs as of early this year. But after 7th pay commission, he will get a hike of 25to 30 K from Jan 2016. If I get at least 15K more then I can have a decent living in a rented accommodation.
1) Shall I appeal to the high court for revision and yearly increment?
2) Shall I ask for accommodation under DV act?
3) Shall I appeal in the divorce case for interim accommodation? (Divorce case is in mediation, my husband told I can join him inside mediation room but outside court, he called and gave me three conditions i) he wants 10 lacs from me or my father, ii) no contact with my parent and iii) until things settle I have to give him half custody to son). He has also filed a custody case while mediation going on. I agreed to mutual but he denied mutual divorce as well. I used to send him mail for child school function and during the sick time, he never responded. I have proofs of many emails which I did not submit to court initially but during cross-examination in crmsc 125, he himself agreed he doesn't know anything about the kid and he told I don't allow. At that point, I submitted one email. During cross-examination he told he is willing to take me back but then he did not pursue. NOw if mediation fails I have to file the objection. Can I appeal for dismissal as he recently said in cross-examination he can take me back after filing the divorce with the same judge? Can I also ask for the interim order for accommodation with him?
He will ask me if I want to join him, when I agree to join he put such conditions and when I disagree to his condition, He will say I will take the case back to court and then I will ask for mutual and he will disagree. This is what has been happening for last few months. If I tell him you will never get divorced if I say no he will smile and tell he will change his religion. He is making me insane this way.
Under this situation, if the court can order him to accommodate me with him, I can try to rejoin and settle things without paying 10 lacs.
Mother in laws influence is too much on them from childhood. They had troubled violent childhood and I have experienced violence after conception and mother in law joined. I am married for 12 years. I am stuck with his indecision.
You all have seen various cases in life. I respect your experience and request you to suggest me what would be best for me and my son?
With regards