Clarification reg meet my wife when cases pending in court

It is a better option that you should discuss with your wife what she really wants, If there is no situation that you can live together then you can get divorce by mutual consent.

Better to discuss in presence of the elders. Sit and settle the issues. . One has to compromise in a family for better living If not  go for mutual consent divorce. Do not waste your precious time in roaming around the courts. There should be a Happy marriage or easy divorce.

Obviously both of took some hasty steps on spur of the moment without proper application of mind on its consequences.  Your willingness now to patch up with your wife is really laudable.  However, when the matter is already subjudice, prudent for you to involve some mutually respectable relatives or community members to bring about an amicable solution and restart your family life forgetting whatever had happened in the past please.  Best of luck.

As of now, better to avoid going to your wife's place in person unless you are sure that she would not lodge any false criminal complaint against you. If you want to convey any positive message to your wife, you can send it first through some mediators or through e.mail or whatsApp, etc. instead of going to her place in person.

You got married in 2015 but you waited 3 years before filling RCR Section 9 and then She took 4 years to file a Divorce case and then frivolous DV case in 2020. These facts show that the marriage has no potential to revive.

I have seen number of such instances where couples happily revived their  relations and started aftesh ,  including in few cases after  breaking & fighting for decades too.  Therefore, everything is possible if approached with positive mind and sincerity  please. 

Thank you Sir for your  valuable suggestion and spent time for me.