suggest

The reasons for divorce i.e. whether the husband is engaged with another woman or severely torturing you, or harassing you for anything are not mentioned by you.  You amicably talk to your husband and tell him your opinion and take the help of your family members (husband's side and your side), well-wishers to solve the problem as the children will forego all their happiness if you divorced. Please solve amicably to a maximum limit.

it is lack of understanding, love, care, compatibility, mental depression that I am facing while living with him since 2 years. his parents are like any other parents, always take his side. I have thought too much about this now. we are not in talking terms since 6 months and living under same roof. our relationship is dead and we both decided to parts ways too.

Society will not and does not pay your bills. If you are considering of remarriage, divorce your husband else maintain status quo.

Better try to upgrade  knowledge in your career and read Ramayana scriptts etc.