sir,
this is an matrimonial issue and an sensitive issue dont drag to the police station and to the court if u did it there will be a chances of break of wedlock.
you bith discuss ur familly matters leizuely and take decissions even though ur wife wont listen behave cooly and be patiency try to know whey she was behaving like that
eventhough thee is no change on her place the maater before elders then ur problem may be solved
once try to full fill her will once buy an ri she might be feel happy
even then she wont change he attitude plz efer this matter to family counselling center
definately she will get change
even thoough she wont get change take legal suggestion as a last efffort
reprt the matter to the police and get counseling from the police else lodge an fir.
this is an matrimonial issue if u take in a sensitive way it will be solved if u handel legally definately u have to face somany problems
be patience have a nice day