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Raghu AM   19 November 2024

Divorce from my bad charactered wife

Dear all,

I want to file a contested divorce Cas against my wife. She make me leave the house by not cooking for me and even not allow me to cook in her house. Earlier in 2018 I found She has many boy friends as I installed an app on her phone. She is typing laughing emoticon I n wa y sapp when one of the paramours talking to  hug her. I got all the proofs.but the web site of the app is not working now. I lost the user ID and pass word. I came out of her house on March 8th 2024.its been 8 months she is not allowing to meet my  daughter and my pet. She brain washed my daughter and she too hates me. My daughter called me and she asked me to return to home on March 9th. But I softly denied her as they put me to harsh treatment. In 2018 itself I came to know her bad behaviour. Since then I am with her for my daughter. She changed her too and she buys what all she wants. Previous month my wife wanted to stab my daughter for a small issue. I asked my daughter to  come out whi h she refused. My wife tells that if I put the proofs of her talking to her boy friends in  courts et she will file privacy case in me. On Nov7th 2022 I can't  control my feelings and I kicked on her l as she kicked on my private parts asking her "are you a woman"? My daughter took video and since then they are black mailing me. My daughter does not like me as I am strict wrt her studies. Now as I'm not there she is not going to College since maybe from 4 months and  her mother is ruining her career. My wife used to steal money when my friends / sisters  came to my house. Her boy friends are 10 + as far as I know. They are planning to go to u.s in Feb 2025. Pls guide me what to do and I want a genuine honest lawyer in kondapur, madhPur ,muyapur etc area of hyderabad.  Pls advice. 



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Alpa Jogi (Advocate)     19 November 2024

Facts you posted are contradicting with each other. Specially about your daughter. So my advice is based on the understanding that I have derived from your narration

1) If you want to get separated from your wife, you can try to convince her for mutual divorce. If not possible than you can file for constested divorce based on cruelty and desertion (Can be filled based on adultery also, but adultery is probably the most difficult thing to be proved in court of Law, hence not advised)

2) For your daughter you can file for custody or visitation rights if you wish to do so.

 

Regards

 

Alpa Jogi (Advocate)

Divorce Lawyer in Ahmedabad

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Raghu AM   19 November 2024

Sir thank you for your advice. My wife is not agreeing for mutual consent divorce. My daughter loves me but she doesn't like me to be strict on her regarding her dressing , food habits  etc. My wife brainwashed her . I wont go with adultery as you advised... Cruelty and desertion will go as I had all the proofs. My daughter is 17 years old. But I will go for her custodial rights as my wife out if anger she may stab her . I got whatsapp messages of my daughter saying that her mother tried to stab her . 

T. Kalaiselvan, Advocate (Advocate)     19 November 2024

You can file a divorce case on the grounds of mental as well as physical cruelty.

The desertion ground will not be applicable and for adultery you need to provide substantial documentary evidence 

Hence divorce on the grounds of cruelty can be filed, additionally you can file a child custody case, though it may not fetch you the desired relief because by another year your child will become an adult hence the child custody case may become infructuous.

You can consult a local lawyer and proceed with assistance of the lawyer.

 

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