A couple married 4 years back--- live together for 1 year--- had fights regularly for smallest of reasons--- wife was overpossessive and wanted to control everything, only child of her parents, strong interfereance of her mother in the married life---- finally on a petty issue leaves home, was pregnant at that time-- had a child, father has just seen the child during first 15 days of birth--- repeated reconcilation through her family failed-- no definitive answers form her side about coming back-- legal notices for MCD were replied with threats of criminal offence-- living seperately for 3 years now-- needs divorce-- how should he go about it?