Respected Experts,
Dont know from where to start. I want divorce , this 26th June'13 it will be 1 yr for my marriage. I am middle class hard working guy. I have my mother and sister in my faimily , sister is married , i have two brothers also but they dont live with us. So eventually all the family responsibility is on me. i was afraid of marriage thing , but due to pressure from faimily i got married , before marriage i cleared everything to wife n her faimily that she has to take care of my mom and live with her at least few yrs ( as i work in delhi and mom works at my native place that is in UP) , i did all to make her happy, i use to visit home every fortnightly, mom also use to take her to delhi as and when possible so that we can spend time together,mom n sis use to take care of her as much as possible. But things get started worsen after 15 days of marriage, she did not wanted to live with mom, i understand her feeling but i request her to take care of mum atleast for 1-2 yrs , but without saying anything she express her feeling, use to cry everytime, slowly she started showing tontrums, even she started argueing with mom n sis on silly things . due to all these mom's health was not good, she was ill since last one year , and in March'13 mom detect with kidney failure...:( , and same time my wife also went to her home and till now she is not back when we needed her most. She never say that she wont come but still she has not come yet ( A puzzle for me... why she is doing this? ) . her faimily is now creating problems every now and then they call me , my sister and use to argue/quarrel with us. All this scenario is giving deep mental pressure to me,my sis,my mother ( who is fighting with Chronic kidney desease) . They are playing dual game. Now i am very much depressed and frustrated with all these. if it would have affected only me then i could have tolerate but unfortunately its affecting all of us which is giving me mental pressure, i am unable to concentrate on anything.
She is good for nothing so i dont have any interest in her(physically) , i tried to develop my interest and asked her to change herself according to me n i ll change myself according to her , but she never tried anything , due to her careless behaviour and all these tantrums i have lost all the interest n hope on her. Now i want to get rid of her but without affecting my faimily. We are now very weak financially n mentally due to mom's health condition. I dont know how to get rid of her easily . I just cant live with her anymore, may be its my ego but whatever i just cant live with her at any cost.
Please let me know easiest way for divorce , the consequences and remedies. I know once i file case things will get more worse for me may be they file counter case, dowry case, domestic violence etc. So please please guide me so that i can tackle this problem easily.
Thanks In Advance. and Sorry i got emotional and streched my story.
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