Divorce

What you want from your adamant wife?

Now she has got the PSU job also,do you think she will give respect and love to you?

What you think has made both of you a rivalry?

There is something which is lacking even after producing two lovely son's?

Have you gone through marriage councellor?

This not the way by which life goes as wife is living in different city and husband is living in a different city and children's are like a football from this goal to that goal..!!!!

She is urban women not a remote area women to whom you could order her and she will follow all by neglecting her desires.

Plz come to conclussion as what you want from your marriage,You are 38 year old guy even well settled man.Your wife is earning,plz have intense talk on both's future before coming to the litigation's.

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If she is still adamant:

1. Use 50:50 option of RCR where she can ignore and become herself as exparte or she could join you during the mediations in the processing.

2. If she is not eager to join you then what else you can do,No court can force her to join you.

3. She is not entitled to get maintenance when she is earning,so no cause of draging the cases afterward's,as she has no benefit.

4. If she not join's you even after RCR ,then it's universally prooved that she has deserted you,where she will not get any maintenance/Alimony by any sections.Better counter her divorce by whatever you have evidences against her.Here you can drag her divorce case.

5. For children's you both are concerned to contribute the maintenance amount for his well being and needs.

6. Plz go through the root of the problem and try to sort out by compromising in the ratio of 50:50 %

7. Rest all depend's on your choice and desire as what you want from you life.

Best of luck.

regards.

Thanks So Much !!!!

There is no any strong reason for her to tell she does not love me any more....

I'm ready to compromise !!!! Last 8 years I did all the activity like buying a flat, getting her trained for job and supported her all way..

She is not interested in me now... Now kids are there, so no s*x required so no husband required...

Her brothers are also divorced. She is telling them u are enjoying life after divorce, why not me...

She did not compromise in LOK ADALAT... she openly told she needs divorce... That's O.K I can take divorce  but what is this maintenance ????

I'm worried about kids.. and how long she can drag the case ???   If i bring her back also she may try for sucide and put me behind bar..

Please advise ???