Myself married (Inter caste) on 23 April 2009. We both were class mates and MCA graduated working in reputed companies.
We have a baby girl (3 years and 2 months). Before marriage I have clearly informed her everything about me and my family. More than 1000 times I have informed her that I can’t leave them at any cost (aged 70 years) and we have to adjust and stay together.
There are many differences between both of our families in terms of customs, religions and other things.
There are many instances where she has used foul and abusive languages against my aged parents that I couldn’t tolerate.
On February 16, 2012 she again used abusive and foul languages about me and my parents (No son should listen to those words about parents) that hurt me very badly which I couldn’t control or tolerate myself. She even threatened us (many times) that she will go to police and lodge an FIR against us. Immediately I informed her parents to come and they took her along with the daughter saying few days we will take her.
Since then irrespetive of many attempts from me, my parents, friends, relatives and wellwishers still there is no result. I approached Karnataka State Legal Services Authority for reconciliation and we failed to reconcile. (I didn't accept her demands and allegations)
She had sent a legal notice with all false alligations which i denied, now she is not interested in coming back she quit her job ( I came to know) and demanding mutual divorce, compensation for her and daughter.
Request your guidance in the following
1. We both are equally qualified (Masters), should I have to give alimony to her?
2. Should i give daughters compensation as one time settlement or monthly?
3. How much (approximate) amount i should give as compensation towards daughter (monthly and onetime)
