Dear Comrades, Got to help me on this.
Iam married for 6yrs with 4 yr child. Wife stays with her aged parents except during weekend 2 years now. Iwas okay to take careof her parents but she wants me to throw my parents out and sell my current flat & make one in joint names (though both are earning v well)
Last few months while i finally agreed to her terms. I got to know she had already taken kids admission & a flat on her own without my knowledge. While i discussed a MOU so as to finally be together at her place, she continued speaking nicely everyday for till a last week. The KG school had just started & she took child to her parents house stating some party and i got the divorce notice next day & with injunction notice (not to visit her house or the school) to attend court within 1 hour or exparte decision will be taken by court
a) Can such short notice valid.
While i attended and asked that i need to read the content & also attend office, the judge asked me to give very generic undertaking not to disturb anything & take immd next working date. He said it wont mean anything against me . I agreed. However, the wife s lawyer spoke to him separetly & later i found the hearing date was postponed to 30 days later.
b) For now, Automatically custody is treated to be with my wife & her parents ?.
d) Now, my wife & in laws are not allowing me to meet child (whom i spent time daily even while he was at wife mother place) stating there is a undertaking & they will give police complaint. Iam surprised by my wife lawyer, who has asked her to stop every communication possible.
My current lawyer discussed Access Rights application, but after a week of working on same, has taken severely ill. He is of opinion i must Not visit her place & allow them to further catch me offguard. but my child is suffering. he is not allowed to even speak to me on phone ( as i did daily).
Whats will go wrong if i visit them straight ?
Rgds