My wife deserted me 5yrs ago & walked away from my life & family leaving my aged mother .till today i have tried to patch up from mediations through family & friends circles. she & her family are showing negligence & blaming me for no fault of mine .My parents are sick and suffering from BP and depression.My elder brother is married, am staying with my mother and brother .my wife doesn’t want to live with them , she wants me to come out of the family. I lost my dad when I was 2Yrs, my elder brother took care of me and my mother. I cant leave him .
My wifes brother is into politics and she threatens me every time. She finally filed 498a.
Later some how after so many trials in court , they arrived at a compromise formula. She came back after 2yrs and acted as if she really wants to live with me. Later we had a child also. She went to her moms palce for delivering the child and never returned . She has again pulled me and my family and filed DV – Domestic Voilence. Later we discovered that she had an affair with her school boyfriend, but forcefully married to me. It was for the 60 acres of land we had in mangalore, she was married to me.
People don’t accept the fact that she has an affair, because her brother is in politics. Am not sure if that child she has delivered is mine or not.
I have been fooled . Actually I wanted to marry my sisters daughter, but my fate made me marry this women, who spoilt my peace of mind. I have applied for a divorce but her brother is not willing for that. And my parents and relatives don’t want to accept her any more.
We gave her a chance once , but she misused it. Should I accept her or not. Pls suggest me.
My mother feels that if she comes back forcefully, again she may continue her affair with her boyfriend.