HI
I want to here ask about a situation and what a women should do in that situation.
The marriage of this women took place 3 years back. From starting after 10-15 days the in laws family started emotionally tortoring women demanding dowery, young brother of husband and his sister started verbally abusing her. They took all her jewellery and the husband left the girl to her home.
After 4-5 month the husband came with his family and again took her wife to his home but nothing changed after 2-3 month the in law family again started behaving the same way (demanding dowery, emotionally tortoring). The husband himself was involved in such activities.
The girl was running her own expandiators by a school teacher job she was doing. There was no financial support from the husband even he was demanding salary from her money.
Now again the husband left the girl to her own parents home and girl. Just after 3 months she gave a birth to baby. The girl own mother took care of her girl's kid from that point of time and all the financial support was provided by the girl father and girl herself by the teacher job she was doing.
Around a year the husband did not contacted her wife and not even his new born kid.
Than one day his father got seriously ill. The husband came with his relative to girl's home and said he want to take her wife to her home because his father was seriously ill and on the verge of death and he said his father want to live with his grandson for the life time he left with. than after 2-3 month the husband's father passed away.
Than after few month the father of husband passed away they again started torturing girl. The husband's young brother, his sister, his old mother all together. One day there are a huge verbal fight with the girl and next day the boy left the girl to her own home than he did not contacted the girl for a year of period.
From birth the girl is taking care for all her needs and the kids need by the job she is doing. Now the girl's family contacted the relative of the girl's husband and asked them what they want as the husband is not contacting her wife and kid than in few meeting the boy said I will only take the girl home if she will leave her govt job or she is agree to give her all salary whatever she will earn to husband.
The girl disagreed to this by giving the argument that she is the one who is taking medical, food and every other need of the kid and herself so she cannot give her all salary because the husband is not trusted person. What if he again left her. She also said she will not go to her husband home without taking a writtten proof from him that he and his family will not repeat same thing and she will give some part of her salary only after three years if he and his family will not repeat same thing.
The husband on this said by a mediator that he want divorce as he cannot drop her wife daily to a local railway station and her mother cannot take care of kid. He will only take her wife to his home if he is agree to leave her govt job.
Now what should that girl do because after such incidents she also don't want to go back to her husband and from the husband behaviour it is proved that there is not emotional attachement from his husband for her and her kid.
1. Should she give the kid to his husband. The kid is of 2 years and some month old?
2. Should she keep the kid but the problem here is she will have difficultly in future to get married again?
3. Is there any possibily she can get some financial security for the kid from her husband?
I want to help someone. Please guide.
Thanks for reading such a long story and feel free to pm me if have any questions.
