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Best is to compromise with opposite parties and take mutual divorce and end the matter. I disagree with any one who will suggest you to fight these cases.  They are all life consuming and will finish your life.  Money can be earnt again, not life.

One should attempt to stay away from litigation as much as possible.

If IT becomes unavoidable then one should face IT as lion hearted.

Have you, elders from both sides, mediators, well wishers, sharp counsels, shrude negotiators……not tried to save the marriage? If IT can be done successfully IT is the best option.

If differences can be creased, and marriage can be saved nothing like IT.

If litigation can be avoided and matter can be resolved amicably and troubled wedlock can be ended by MCD IT is 2nd best option…

If nothing is possible despite all efforts and matter is sure to land up in PS, courts of law then you need to become properly informed and have your unshakable witnesses and irrefutable evidences and a very able counsel to guide and defend you. You need to build rapport and goodwill with bosses and authorities so that they consider your hardships and are gentle and considerate while looking into rules.

At the same time you must not be into a situation where authorities also convey that their hands are tied with rules (Conduct and Discipline Rules) and your hands get tied by police officials and you are in custody…

Whatever you have posted point to cruelty.

Approach a very able senior LOCAL counsel of unshakable repute and integrity specializing in Family matters and having successful track record ….. and worth his/her salt …for help and guidance.

If the counsel (Criminal matters) that helped you to get bail specializes in Family matters you may engage him/her or find another very able counsel as already suggested.

If your lawyer is not able, change and never engage again.

If your lawyer is not serious, change and never engage again.

If your lawyer is unwilling or casual, change and never engage again.

If your lawyer is colluding, change and never engage again and make such Lawyer popular in communities.

Spend quality time in finding a very able counsel.

Your own counsel very able counsel can take care of the file/docs from old counsel and also advise you further after examining the irrefutable evidences that you have as per your post.

Find successful PIP’s at your location and gain from their experience.

There are many portals for situations spouses face like you.

You can visit them and become properly informed.

Hazard of harassment in contested divorce cannot be ruled out.

As a suffering spouse you must have evidence to contest and nerve to face and save your job and come out clean in all cases and support and guidance of very able counsels and PIP and elders of the family, well wishers, friends, colleagues, relatives, society, NGO’s, bosses/employer, unshakable witnesses, irrefutable evidences… patience, resolve and money to pay the FEES and maintain yourself..

If you have NONE avoid rushing and running to Lawyers and Courts (empty handed) and become properly informed and prepare for peaceful life in future.