Sir,
I am a 26 yr old girl madly in love wid a 29 yr old boy. We met in univ. 5 yrs bak and fell in serious luv. four yrs back before getting intimate with him he filled in sindoor on my forehead . Infact he bought d choora. Inshort , in our eyes we gmarried each other. Ever since then we lived happily, made many future plans. No body knows of our marriage. But last year wen he spoke to his family,the dismissed the argument for the reason dat i am a rajput and he is a Brahmin. Since 1 year we are struggling to be together. But its nt being possible b'coz of his family. Now the situation is as such that the boy has almost backed off under family pressure. He asked me to marry some1 else, forgt everything and even didnt admitt about marrying me. He has turned a total stranger now. I am helpless as i consider him as my husband since 4 yrs. the boy is not as he is behaving , but he doesn't want to go against his family. Moreover, my family,unaware of dis z continuously buil;ding pressure on me to get married.
I called up his mother, begged for him and finally told her about our marr. but it made no difference to her n she told me to quietly marry sum1 else. I am very depressed. I want myove . But some1 told me dat if i file a case against him, he'll loose his govt. job. which i dont want to happen. Some1 please guide me . wat shud I do? Is there any case which will help me validate my marr. in court, I have d pics.( without snatching his job) .I love him a lot.
