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I really DO NOT believe in your story at all. This is another instance of exaggeration and stupidilty of woman.

Simple lacunas in above post:

Gharwalo ko ladka pasand aa gaya isiliye meri shadi is ladke ke sath ho gayi

Parents might have seen somethin better in the guy that is why they happily married @Author to him. Don't know how a newly wedded wife be tortured for no cause at all.

even meri engagement ke baad hi Dr. S P Gautam mujhse shadi todna chahta tha

How did @Author came to know about this. And if somehow she did, then why she didn't just moved on and away from this marriage. Would any parents marry their daughter to a person whom they like but the boy doesn't want to marry? I think NO!

par main kisi ko bhi nahi bata pati thi, ek to majboori thi doosra mujhe phone tak par baat nahi karne di jati thi. main kya karti?

Why couldn't she tell anyone? If a road-side-romeo harasses a girl, she would immeditely tell her mother if not at the first instance but atleast when it happens second time. Here the Author states she was beaten and it was her eighth month. Still she is imaginarily showing helplessness? Unbelievable! In a country, where women files 498a etc., within 10days of marriage, the Author does not tell to her parents?

yahan inhone humen (mujhe aur bachcho ko) hume khana dena tak band kar diya . matlab ye ghar mein khane ke liye rashan tak nahi laate the

This is the most stupid line out of above allegations. Would a MBBS bring ration or buy grocery etc., from hi-tech strores? Moreover, from where would he eat his food? So Lame!!!!

meri beti bhi hui yahan aakar

Even after so much beatings and abusing, they had regular s*x life. Amazing couple yaar...!!

bachco ko bhi khoob mara inhone chaaku dikha dikhakar marte the.

I do not understand the reason behind such alleged behaviour of highly qualifed person. A doctor is behaving like lunatic as alleged. Now either the doc. is really mad or the reasons for this post is obvious!!

mere parents se baat hui to unhone kaha ki hum kahin se udhar lekar tumhe B.ed karwa denge to ye bhi maan gaya

Loan for a 2yr course that too B.Ed.? How much does this cost? Nothing more than 20-30k. Yet the parents says they would take loan. The girl is M.A (Economics). How did she completed her studies then? And her marriage? What absurd remarks by Author. Totally unbelievable!!

phir jab mujhe padhne ke liye time chahiye tha tab isne ladayi karni start kar di hume koi bhi rashan vagairah dena band kar diya.3 ya 4 month se main apne parents se jo paise milte the usi se rashan lakar bachcho ko khana khila sakti thi.

Repeating same general allegation about ration.

Author is intelligent enough to talk to "Union" members of her husband's hospital but so novice to not to disclose the same atrocities to her own parents. Also she is so hi-tech that she is has access to internet and make posts online but is so amateur that she is dependent on ration.

Let's see how my "feminist" colleagues represent and reply to this post !!!! (INTERESTING REPLIES AWAITED)

Just an innocent question to Author::

Aapke vakeel ne kuch achhi complaint nahi banayi hai. Kisi doosre vakeel ko pakadiye aur zara strong complaint banvaiye. Is complaint se to main bhi "convince" nahi hua, to Judge sahab kya honge?

//peace

/Saurabh..V

Mr Saurabh,

Ye jo bhi likha hai Manju ne nahi maine (unki sister) ne likha hai. Mujhe jitna samajh aaya likh diya sirf  thode educted logo ki advise lene ke liye. ye kisi lawyer ne nahi likha hai. aur na hi ye koi case hai jise court mein jana hai. Meri sister shadi mein in problems ko khatm karna chahti hai , naaki Apne husband ko saja dilwana..

Apne poori baat theek se padhi nahi hai.. Dobara padhna aur reply karna.

Abhi aap lawyer bane bhi nahi ho. pehle theek se padhayi kar lo. Baad mein advise dena.

Yahan maine isliye ye sab post kiya bcz mujhe laga ki shayad yahan koi didi ki prob ka koi solution bata paye.

Ye check karo "

Hi All,

I am writing this on my sister in laws behalf, her husband is a real pain and does not support her at any point. Her husband is a Doctor by profession but acts like totally an illitrate person. They have two kids (6 Years - Boy and 2 Years - Girl).

From the first day of marriage she was treated as a prisoner at home and was beaten up & abused throughout the day. Even now after 7 years of marriage the home environment is still the same. She doesn't get any support from her in-laws.

She wants to study further but gets no support from her in-laws family. Now her husband wants her to get money from her parents so that he can buy a flat. He abuses her whole day and do not provide her food or daily neccessity items. At times he even excreates on bed and ask her to clean it and do not provide any financial support at any time.

During the tenure of 7 years he has left her multiple times at her parents place and has threatned her for divorce. As per his collegues in the hospital, he is mentally sick and has the same behaviour at his work place.

She is really suffering a lot in his day to day life and in upbringing of her children.

Please suggest. I eagerly look forward to your reply.

Thanks and Regards,

Help Seeker".

Ye bhi usi prob ka part hai jo maine abhi discuss ki hai, pehle bhi ye post kiya gaya hai.

Didi ne 7year se jyada tolerate kiya hai, but ab baat bachcho ki bhi hai. Wo bas ape bachcho ko khushiyan dena chahti hai.

Regards

Help Seeker

Why are people suffer like this when Law is with them.

Didi ko samjhao,dare mat aur police mein complaint kare agar woh himmat nahi juda pati to aap unki taraf se kare aur aap bhi nahi kar sakti to Nari seva sansthan her shaher mein hain agar wo bhi nahi ho to bejhijjhak mail kare mujhe puri detail ke sath :girishshringi@gmail .com

Aap bhi jis bhi shahar mein ho hum gujarat se direct police complaint kar denge. Is desh mein abh bhi agar aisa hoga to 64 saal ki azadi kis kam ki.

Girish Shringi

(Advocate)

hi manju,
y do u even answer such sh*t loads who don't understand ur problem. this is a clear case of man abusing woman and would come under dv. if u lodge a complaint with lil bit of evidences, the doctor would come wagging his tail behind you. u know, if u go to any lawyer, he would make u write few things in complaint, which would look good to u, as u will think more allegations means the doc would be in mor fear, but with time these big stories will turn into a problem for urself. exaggirations should be avoided and consistancy should be maintained. if u need any help, pm me or right to female.activist@gmail.com. and i m ready to help any woman who has a true case. avoid pitfalls, learn and give them back

Congratulate!

Female activist,for showing your willingness to help a woman in need of support.

Hi,

Thanks to all.

Didi ne police mein complain bhi kar di hai aur lawyer se bhi baat ki hai. ab situation under control hai. I hope dheere dheere sab theek ho jayega. Abhi tak humare parents involve nahi the kahin bhi but ab humne papa mummy ko bhi bata diya hai, aur aap logo ke suggestion se kafi help bhi hui hai. Final decision jo bhi ho, I will infor m you all.

Thanks & Regards

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god bless you.

Wish you all the best.

Himmate marda madede khuda.