Help me ..... from 498a

This is a sad story of me , I am married in dec’11 and after almost after 2 years of marriage, wife filed 498a, DP 3 and 4 on me and my parents in sep’13 and also DVC case for maintain ace in feb’14 My father was arrested and send to remand , and remaining got anticipatory bail from Andhra Pradesh high court. In 498a case we filed quash petition, but nothing happening in the highcourt from the past 8 months. DVC case I did not take notices from court and not attending court . Till now from my wifw side no one came for any talks or any settlements. Now recently my wifes parents approaching our relatives for settlement , we are not ready for any settlement as we are very much troubled by them. What can I do to save my family from these false cases and how can I take revenge on my wife and her family? Please suggest …… some one