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Ramkumar_A (Software Engineer)     13 May 2014

Help me from my wife

Dear All,

I am Ram working in IT professional from chennai Tamil nadu , i Got married on feb 9th , and now i am facing many problems from my wife side and with her family . She giving mental torture and still she not having any relation with me even Sex , at first itself she told that she was fear on s*x and she not interest on that , i thought that after few days she will be normal and get this will be solved , but she lived with me 27 days and she did not consumulate anything , mean while she giving false complaints to her father and mother regarding i am planing to get down her from bike while driving , and i am talking to girls in the mid night, and showing many girls photos in the night from net like this gave many false complaints to her family . Now recently she threaten me that she will file dowry harresment case for me like that .  she have many problems mentally her behaviour is not at all good . and while i went her home to talk compromise she talked harshly and her mother talked very badly so left from that place . and again they are telling many false complaints about me to their relatives and around the pupil . So me and my family decided was feeling very bad and we are fear on false dowry harresment case and about her theartning . kindly help wat are the steps i need to take to prevent and protect my self from her .

 

Pls friends help me on this with your valuable advice and care .

 

Thanks

Ram

 



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All is NOT well (Harrased by Biased Laws)     13 May 2014

Dear Ram,

Sad to hear about your story :(.

(1.) Please write a letter to your local SP mentioning the threats from wife and in laws about implicating false dowry case against you and your family and you and your family has the threat to life from your wife and in laws

(2.) Get Anticipatry bail

(3.) seems like your wife is in adultry with someone, try to find out her mobile call records and any other means to prove adultry.

All the Best !!!

Ramkumar_A (Software Engineer)     13 May 2014

Thanks so much for your reply .

 

Yesterday my mother made a complaint to the local women's police station regarding that my wife threatening like that , and after the inspector investigated our slef and adviced that file a divorce case in court and let meet her in court like that .

and i have a CSR copy as well reg the complaint which we gave against her in the police station .

 

And my another question is my mother in law only creating a problem in my life she is telling lot of wrong thing to her daughter about me and makine my name bad around her and with my family .

So whether any possibility is there to file a case against my mother law regarding that she making me mental disorder, and making me feel daily and even she told whatever i am not talked words to their relative like this . Pls advice and help me on this

Thanks

Ram

All is NOT well (Harrased by Biased Laws)     13 May 2014

Hi Ram,

in almost all the cases the trigger is in the hand of gir's mother / father, but you can use it as weapon.

 

How?

(1.) call your mother in law with auto call record on (without even let anybody know about this) and tell her about all behaviour of your wife and wisely instigate your mother in law so that she threaten your or misbehaving you.

(2.) after this write registered letter to your mother in law asking for help in making your mariied life happy and complaints about your wife's cruelity / ill behaviour and seeking her help to make your wife understand. -- I am sure she will not respond to these letter but these along with call records can be used as proof in your divorce case ojn cruelity ground or any other cases.

 

Ramkumar_A (Software Engineer)     13 May 2014

thanks for your care and reply .

 

But my mother in law talked harshly one time with me , i recorded that voice in my phone . And she is not good to read the letters .

Whether is any law is there to file a case against my mother in law reg that she causing bad name on  my individuality and making my name bad around other pupil .

Thanks

Ram

adv.raghavan (Advocate,9444674980)     13 May 2014

If you have decided to part ways with her, file a divorce suit under cruelty and be prepared to take on alimony cases to come by. 

Ramkumar_A (Software Engineer)     13 May 2014

Thanks , What is alimony case ???

satish bhaskar (Litigant)     13 May 2014

maintenance case, wherein court may ask you to pay her every month, depending upon education, work status of both of you. alimony or all is money, if relations are bitter. if sweet then money is nothing!

Ramkumar_A (Software Engineer)     13 May 2014

Thanks , But i am not did anything wrong . Whatever they are telling all are their imagination . I sufferred mentally disturbed and my family crying every day becos of their . So how come i need to give maintenance .

 

Whether any other way to handle this ???

Thanks

Ram

satish bhaskar (Litigant)     13 May 2014

you all need to be patient and courageous.

satish bhaskar (Litigant)     13 May 2014

you don't need to give maintenance or anything till there is a court order which takes time. let the court order. whatever they may say to cops, you, your family, don't succumb. they have to prove it, in court.

All is NOT well (Harrased by Biased Laws)     13 May 2014

Originally posted by : Ramkumar_A

Thanks , But i am not did anything wrong . Whatever they are telling all are their imagination . I sufferred mentally disturbed and my family crying every day becos of their . So how come i need to give maintenance .

 

Whether any other way to handle this ???

Thanks

Ram

This is the Beauty of our women biased Indian Judiciary...In Reality Women Empowerment is only Wife empowerment, other women like husband's mother-sisters are not part of it...


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