Dear Sir,
Last year I got very good suggestions from here and followed it. I could save me at some extent.
Thanks to Adv. Bharat Chugh Sir and all other who gave me suggestions.
Now I need suggestion on few more points.
Based on our cast's custom, I got divorce in April 2013. We signed papers and notarized it. We have applied for decree on May 2013. I have two kids so I insisted my ex-wife for mediation / re-conciliation but she is not ready to consider it. She wants divorce only. Other big point is decree case was filed by her advocate on name of me (Like I am asking for divorce) as advocate is relative from both side but more from her side. He told me that trust me that does not make any difference.
Points are :
1. How much time court will take to proceed for decree? Total 6 months or after 6 months only, my case will be started? As per new rule, cooling period cannot be waived off? Does it make any difference who filed case?
2. As per Mr. Advocate, case will not come for hearing before 6 month and we cannot do anything. Can not request ownarable judge to process it.
3. Last month on 27th there was date and I went to court. Mr. Advocate told me that he has already told his assistant to take next date. I don't understand that. He did not even try to speak with judge but directly took date. He never informed me about past hearing dates in and next month date also.
4. Can me make request to ownarable judge to proceed the case? Now when she is not ready, and we have custom based divorced, I also don't want to wait for her. Almost two years gone but she is not ready to come back even though she had made big mistake in life and I am ready to forget everything.
I feel Mr. Advocate is cheating me and not proceeding my case. I heard that when we have already signed divorce paper, court could give decree in 3- 6 months. No need to wait for 6 moths cooling period.
Please advice me. Can I change my Advocate? If my case can be processed before 6 months I am ready to change lawyer also.
5. As per points in our divorce papers, she allows me to take my kids outside but she tells my kids not to come to my house. I don't take kids to my house so that kids not get upset and to avoid any words from her mother.
6. As per Mr. Advocate, I can not take custody of my kids as court will not allow, in any case mother will get custody, court will ask kids questions. If court will ask questions to my kids, they will prefer mother for sure. They don't have any problem and they say that if will come to you if mummy comes. They want both and if any one then mother...
I don't want to disturb kids and don't want to separate out even brother and sister (my kids daughter and son), how can I get kids custody? Can I get custody of one kid? Does court allows custody of one kid to me and one to my Ex?
Thanks in advance for your valuable suggestions.
Regards
Patel