How to get divorce after 498a and 3 yr separation

1.Mutual consent divorce can be filed together only. This can be filed at convenient location that is either at the last place you were residing together or at the place where is now presently residing. 

2. If she had filed a divorce petition then obviously the court will send you summons. In case her advocate plays some rick and the summons are not delivered to your and returned as not served then the court will insist to have a substitute summons through publication in news paper.

3. The question about the time duration it is depends on actual situation at the material time. No time frame can be anticipated as of now.

4. Mutual Consent Divorce deed can contain such terms of child custody.

Thank you Rohit Sarma. 

I go by the opinion rendered by learned advocate Mr. Rohit Sharma, there is nothing more to add to it.

Hello Kalaiselvan,

I have described the current situation here https://www.lawyersclubindia.com/forum/How-can-i-divorce-my-wife--114507.asp

Kindly advise. Thank you in advance.

Regards