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Ashok (Software engg)     25 July 2013

How to save from dv ?

Hi this is ashok bhosale from bangalore. my wife is from nagpur her father is ACP their.when marriage happend from that point we had dispute and fight..but it got settled also then that time itself.last year she went to her native for pregnancy purpose from last july 2012 to till now she was their..inb/w her mother (who is seperated and running bar & rest) change her mind and ..make her bad like her.now after 1 yr..last jun ..she come to bangalore..with her father help..10days stays at my home and took all belonging and marriage certificate and run away..her parents blaming me that ..u have done something wrong that is reason she left..from call log it was found that ..entire family is involved in this matter..so i took her of 1 lawyer in bangalore and put RCR, but after 15days i got call of 498A from her native police station..as her father is police their ..they are taking misdue advantage of all.. now i have scared how to handle this..i put bell their..but in future i m woried for DV / 125 CRPC . i m getting good salary ..and having loan flat in bangalore..so can she ask for more money as maintainance ? she can ask for my property share also? please help me to get out of this hell.. suggest me right solution. Ashok Asbhosale.1987@gmail.com



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Dear Author,

No need to worry for false 498a,dv as they can be your benefits in future.but before that get AB at anycost .If you have not done anything wrong and she doesn't have any evidences against you then be relaxed .Go in your mothers in law's bar have a rimy martin cocktail there,talk very politely to your MIL and ask what she wants? record that conversation and keep it safe and do the following things:


1. Keep in touch with your wife try to reconcile her(for sake of your child) and start recording all things.


2. Know her A/C and deposit some amount for your child and her if she is not working at regular intervals.


3. Now play it safe,as you have filled RCR as your intention is to live with her,then go accordingly with your RCR and points what you have mentioned in it.


4. Give a NCR to the nearest ploice station stating that she has left you and had taken evrything of her.(attach it with RCR)


5. Meanwhile transfer all your hefty accounts balance for the sake of your child as policy and you have to show these your expences afterwards during the time of maintenanace.


6. Wait for her to file DV cases and mainetnace cases(before that you have to collect all  ingredients ready to deflame them).


7. Be a constant reader of LCI querries regarding mainetnance and child custody and divorce.


8. Don't loose pateince as all the false cases that she will put will bounce back on her for getting you divorce easily from you if things don't work after all your attempts to call her back.


 

with regrads,

 

A sufferer.......













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