First of all thanks to Adv k . mahesh ji, adv. chandrasher ji and Mr. Tajobsindia.
Here, I would like to cite few more clarifications date wise to understand more....
July 2010 : she left my home for office and left the kid at my place...and never return till date....,
Dec 2010: moved to Z city for employment and kid was with me.
May 2011: Picked the kid from my city(X) to City Z of her place. I visited thrice to make her return but she denied on many pretext....
June 2012: I filed case of Divorce on Cruelty and desertion in X city
June 2013: She filed case of DV in Y city and mentioned that she moved to city Y in June 2011 and she is living there only since then.
August 2013: My Divorce case proceeded for ex parte, being non serving of summons twice at Z city and publication done in Statesman newspaper.
August 2013: on receipt of summon of DV of Y city, I placed the DV case address and sought summon to be served there thru process and Registered post. both returned.
Jan 2014: In DV case at Y CIty, myself has filed a Rejoinder and thru rejoinder informed her that case of Divorce is running in X city and she is not representing and case can again go for ex parte and she will remain liable for this....
May 2014: She filed application in DV case court in Y city for providing information of Divorce case running in X city.
July 2014: I replied that she can take papers from X city court
July 2014; Decision of divorce done in X city basis Cruelty proved on record.....
July 2014: She filed application of setting aside being no information and summon not received by her....as well as the divorce summon sent in Z city in year 2012 was wrong as i was aware her address of city Y in year 2012 same time of filling the divorce case....
Since June 2011 to Till June 2013(summon of DV case receipt), she has not informed me in writing any address of her living in Y or any other city......, nor i was aware in any form ......Now it is the entire story....Neither she has submitted any proof that she has given me anything in writing about her exact address of city Y...........Moreover, the summons was also served in city Y, and it is also almost a year since then.....
Considering, another fact that now it is complete more than four years separation and lady is adamant to accept her fault as well as she has denied in a gtalk chating in month of April 2014 for reconciliation in front of the relatives of both sides as well as has also sought that she should be forgiven for her all acts....what should i do.
My ex's elder brother is divorced, her mother carrying multiple legal cases of property disputes and her brothers 498A, DV and other family laws related acts against her mother, brother and father...
Please advise.................I agree, my lawyer is working but your advises help me a lot.....as this relation is totally void of love, affection, trust and husband and wife feelings....it is a burden only and has made me a high blood pressure victim also....
Thanks