Husband harasing me

For his RCR, you reply positively. In the mean time you ask the court for interim maintenance for your living till the case is finalised. If he failed to pay, court will penalise your husband. You agree for mediation. etc.

Thanks Ramachary for your kind suggestions..Actually right now I am working and getting around 10 K and by this time he is jobless (Before 2 year he was at abroad and getting more than 2 lakhs/pm)..Can I ask to court that he was with a higher salary? In such case shall I eligible to get Interim alimony?

In case court will ask him to pay and he will not pay then can he get jail?

If he will put un-tolerable condition (as his intention not to stay with me) then only he will accept me...

Again I scared that as his intention not to take with me, so incase court will ask him to take..then following are his plan: he may not take to take me his own family.. and he will put me in another rented house.. Then ill treatment.. Then he will say that I am not in job, so he may ask to do me the useless job, which I may not able to do.. or he may insist for mutual divorce..(ALL WILL BE MY FATE, AS I KNOW HIM.. HE IS A VERY GOOD MANAGER AND CHEATER)

In such case what should I do?

Please suggest me in this regards..

he is the applicant who wants you to be back.  The considtions if any raised by you shall prevail not his.  AS you have already told judge has seen trhough his mind.  For him it is first case but not for the judge.

Ask him to sign on family matters memorandum of understanding between both of you,  these papers to be signed  and submit the same in the court or mediation centre. 

There are legal matters and then there are practical issues. During domestic disputes, it is easy for both parties to get carried away by the decision-du-jour or the decision of the day and forget about the end-game or goal. What I am trying to say is, first decide if you REALLY want to stay with him. If you do not want to do so, then decide what and how much you need from him to move away from his life. Keep that to a practical amount because the more exorbitant you demand, the more difficult it will be for you to get it.

Think of the following: He has filed RCR and he agrees to bring you back into his life. Are you ready for it? If not, he may just be playing this RCR drama to show that he was trying to get you back and you refused to come back... (It is possible that he took my advice given frequently in this forum by me )  If so, you will not qualify for any maintenance if you decline his RCR offer. Hope you know that. RCR is a nice tool that a party can use against the other party.

Have an intermediary person talk to him about some mediation to ultimately move towards divorce. Agree on some reasonable alimony and move on with your life and let him move on with his. If he is a nice person, try to look beyond the one or two incidents and see if you can truly get back together. Perfection is hard to come by this day. If you think that you are going to get a better husband, that may not happen. Think practically.

In view of facts disclosed in PM you sent to me, I do no more agree to my own advise above.

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