I had same s*x relationship with another guy since September 2012.
After nearly 3 years he got married on mutual consent.I/we was/were still trying to maintain healthy relationship.
At the end of December 2017 he took decision to leave me which he didn't inform me and started avoiding me. For the next 3 months I was thinking that it's a mere misunderstanding and things will be fine and kept on texting him on Whatsapp, Facebook, text message etc., but he hardly responded and if responded then he used slangs and harsh words.
I then repeatedly asked him to meet me once and speak and settle in a proper manner which he ignored everytime and blocked me from Instagram, Facebook,WhatsApp.
Then I started communicating him through email and urged him to meet me again and again.He hardly responded again and if responded then again with harsh words and denial of meeting.
I warned him numerous times that if he does like this then I will be forced to contact his inlaws. But he never cared.So, more than a year got passed doing these.
Now, two days ago I finally texted his brother in law and gave some hint about things.
My questions are now,
1. What are the legal steps they can take in this scenario.[Whatever I wrote to his brother in law, was totally indirect and was nothing intended to mean him or I never mentioned his name.So if they misinterpret (actually rightly interpret)]?
2. Can I get arrested under the charges not harrasment?
3. Whatever I wrote to his brother in law was very general in nature. What will be my points if they take any legal steps?
4. I have only proofs of his message replies on email and only some text/Whatsapp, since I lost my earlier mobile 4 months ago. Can earlier WhatsApp messages and text messages be retrieved under Courts order?
I know this is a complicated issue and hope to get valuable advices.
What all I can make out from your facts, you had relationship with a man since September, 2012 that continued even after he got married after 3 years and till December, 2017.
You still want the relationship to continue or want him to settle the discontinution of relationship with you properly and for this reason you even wrote to his brother in law for which you are now worried may back fire and put you in legal problem.
There seems to be no logic behind all this as after his marriage you continued the relationship well aware of his marital status. You want to settle with him, What? Are you looking for some financial settlement? If not than if he has stopped the relationship since December, 2017 more than one years now, there should not be any more formal settlement required. If you are looking for financial settlement, than come out in details what are those? Just because he's no more continuing relationship with you, you are looking financial compensation or you had provided him with financial help and look forward the return of that amount?
Writing any thing about a person to someone else may amount to act of defamation unless you are able to prove those charges levied upon that person, this may not be cognisable offence where police action will be required but still direct criminal or civil case can be filled against you by that person. The messages, emails and all other modes of comunication between both of you may help you out, no doubts about that, but that may spoil his marriage and even result in divorce, and do you think if that ever happens, he will come back to you, forget it.
