I have posted sperate thread madam..Please give ur advice
Rakesh ggg (Agriclture) 10 February 2013
I have posted sperate thread madam..Please give ur advice
R.K Nanda (Advocate) 12 February 2013
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SRISHAILA.DHARANI (Advocate&consultant) 12 February 2013
And also they mentioned they have spent around 50 laksh for marriage and for setting up home which is completely false and also she has given our Reception CD and also Marriage CD.--- They have to proce for having spend 50 lakhs
Will court dismiss my petition or allow .Could you please tell me what should i do now.-- depends how you plead and prove the facts mentioned in your petition.
Some of my friends said withdraw RCR and file for divorce..--Dont do that
Some lawyer say's if RCR is passed in your favor ad still she doesn't come within the given time by court , still you can,t get divorce i have wait for another year to file divorce after RCR decree, is it true
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stanley (Freedom) 13 February 2013
Originally posted by : Pomme | ||
(when a FIR for 498 a is filed the first that happens is a arrest takes place and hence your husband would be behind bars but not for long .He would released on Anticapatory bail within a day or two .Once released he would get all the more stronger and contest his case by fighting back tooth and nail ) Instead I want to lead a safe and secure life, without any disturbances! ( Seek Mutual consent divorce which you would get within 6 months provided he agress to the same ) My husband is a well planned executor. Its my mistake that I trusted him too much, that I lost everything. I dont have any idea on law and sections. However, it is true that he has taken away all my money and belongings, ( I dont understand how did he take away your assets and money which are prseume have got to be on your name did he point a gun to your head ?? or did he forge your signature and take it away than yours would be a case of forgery hence he would have to be tried under that section ) And all the more you have stated that you are working abroad and now he wants to get the custody of my child, ( The courts would decide custody of the child based on the childs welfare and if one gets custody the other would get visitation since a child requires the love of both the parents isnt it . I dont thing you want to promote fatherless society by distancing the natural father from his own child .Come whatever maybe the circumstances the natural father would in anyway get visitation at some point of time . In anyway you want get maintanence for your self as you are a working women as for your child the two of you would have to contribute as maintanence is co- extensive when both the spouses are earning ) so that I may have to remain with him. He has been so cruel to me, but my neighbours and parents has known him to have only pleasant attitude. I dont even know how to prove his character or what he has done to me. I Disagree to Srishila's advice hence Ignore the suggestions given about filing 498 A since as you have conveyed in your own words that your neighbour and parents have know him to have a pleasent attitude . In case you file 498 A and whn it comes to evidence stage how would you prove the same :-)
litigation takes years so do you have the time and the resources for this is for you to make a call . Hence my suggestion is too go in for MCD which would be quik and short |
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Pomme (Teacher) 14 February 2013
Dear Sir,
Thank you for your suggestions and reply!
Infact my husband has never pointed a gun on me. When he needs something, he would appear to be so affectionate. Longing for his love, I would give him whatever he asks. That moment, I will not suspect him at all. But in the long run, I could identify his pattern of extracting money from me. My bank passbooks, cheque books, internet accounts and ATM cards were with him. So he was able to take away all my money. But now, when I asked and got back my cards, I find my internet accounts being locked with new passwords and some bank documents are missing from me. In due with this, I have requested with the respective banks, to recover and lock my accounts.
Even without giving any money, he claimed to get the ownership of my house that I bought in my parents retirement amount and loan. Believing in him, my parents agreed to register the house in both of our names, on which he and his parents were very angry with me (for not registering on his name alone).
He and his parents were demanding for money in lakhs together very frequently and for my jewels too. If I dont give a minimum of one lakh at a time, he will start torturing ( and beating) me so much. That is how he took away all my belongings. As mine is a love marriage, I didnt have the courage to share with anyone.
But now, everything has gone beyond the limit. I have lost almost everything. This vacation, as I didnt agree with some of his terms, he and his family members started ill-treating me too much and they went to an extent of mixing something in my food (to get hold of my child and the house registered)(which they explicitly admitted and threatened). Somehow I escaped and returned back. I dont want to go back and I want to put an end for this marriage. As I dont have good support and help, I couldnt do anything in filing a case or other. But now I think, there is no other go, other than applying for divorce.
He has good background (family) and politically strong too. If you can suggest or help, it would be nice!
Originally posted by : Pomme | ||
Can somebody suggest me a good, less expensive lady lawyer in Chennai? I am a woman living with a child, with a low income, outside India. As it has been unsafe for me and child to live with my husband in India, I am living abroad. He has taken away all my money and belongings. Now tries to get hold of some assets too. It is quite unsafe for me even to come down to India for my education, as I am afraid that they may harm me and take away my child. I need a good lawyer to handle this such problems and to apply for my divorce, even without needing my presence in India. Thank you! |
Was that supposed to be a joke? Less expensive. ha ha ha... LOLzzz
SRISHAILA.DHARANI (Advocate&consultant) 14 February 2013
where do you live ?? Are you working in india or abroad??