Hello all,
this is Varun. I've been married for 3 years in which initially she and her family felt like a good family but they started showing their true colours with their hard core feminstic views like leave your parents, don't look after them, talking really low about them, take my daughter and live seprately but beyond that my wife was a huge pain in the neck. Always fighting, quarelling, using foul words, after every arguments going to her parents and when I go to bring her I had to listen to my in-laws feminstic and dirty views, constant threats of 498a, dowry cases and suicide attempt threats and destryoing my career. This went on for 2.5 years and everytime she and her family kept pushing me although I told them several times not to interfere in my married life or in our family matter. I spent my savings, did everything from gifts to tours to keep her happy but of no use. One day when she left for her parents again after a fight about I should stop taking care of my old retired parents, I decided that this all must end now. I promised myself now whatever happens the part of being a nice husband is over. I would rather face 498a, 125, DV cases than cohabiting with this monster. I'd rather give all my money to a prudent lawyer and to the charity, adopt an orphan and make him a human but I'm not going to give a single dime to this lady. I did hire a lawyer and filed for the divorce which is going on and so far it is in favour. Now they are begging, requesting and even promising not to intefere in my married life but since I stopped being nice they know that their falses cases will have no effect on me. Now my question is, it was my dream to buy my own house which I did couple of months ago. It is under bank loan for 10 years and the house is registered under my name. I would like to ask the experts in this forum that although the house is under my name and still have 9.5 years of installments to be paid, would the court award half of my house to my wife in case she claims for maintenance or I win the divorce. ? It's my dream house and I can not let it go to some crazy feminstic witch because she is amongst those women, who are well-educated and totally capable of earning money but choose to beg for it from the husband in courts rather than being with him and lead a happy life.
