I`M POSTING MY PROBLEM WITH A RECENT DEVELOPMENT. MY WIFE IS STAYING AT HER PARENTS HOUSE IN ORISSA AND SHE IS WORKING IN A GOVT PROJECT SCHOOL AS WARDEN STAYS AT THE HOSTEL. WE GOT 2 YR OLD BABY BOY WHO IS STAYING AT THE HOSTEL WITH MOTHER. I STAY AT BENGAL. I HAVE TRIED MY LEVEL BEST IN PURSUADING HER TO COME BACK TO MY HOUSE BUT SHE DIDNT TILL DATE.
THE RECENT DEVELOPMENT IS THAT SHE HAVE ALMOST STOPPED CALLING ME UP OVER PHONE WHICH SHE USED TO DO EVEN 3 MONTHS BACK. THERE WAS TIME SHE USED TO CALL ME UP 10 TIMES A DAY. NUMEROUS SMS. BUT ALL STOPPED NOWE SINCE DECEMBER, 2012. NOW WHEN I CALL HER UP IN DAY TIME SHE EITHER DONT RECIEVE MY CALL OR IF SHE RECIEVE MY CALL SHE HARDLY SPEAK FOR 2 MINS TELLING ME SHE IS BUSY WITH HER SCHOOL WORK. IF I CALL HER UP AT EVENING AROUND 7PM / 8PM I FIND HER MOBILE NO. IS BUSY...... AND THAT TOO FOR LONG TIME SAY TILL AROUND 10 PM / 11 PM EVERYDAY. FEW DAYS BACK I VISITED MY WIFE AT HER PARENTS HOUSE AND I FIND 1 SUSPICIOUS NO ( suspicious with the content of sms). NOW WHEN I FIND MY WIFE PHONE NO. IS BUSY I FIND THAT SUSPICIOUS NO. IS BUSY TOOOO. I ASKED MY WIFE WHY HER PHONE IS BUSY FOR LONG TIME SHE TELLS SHE SPEAKS WITH HER FRIEND AS THETHERE IS A PACKAGE FROM THE SERVICE PROVIDER WITH UNLIMITED FREE CALLS.ITS VERY OBVIOUS THAT SHE WILL NOT TELL TRUTH.
MY QUESTION IS THAT DOES THIS RECENT DEVELOPMENT ARE SUFFICIENT TO MAKE ME THINK THAT SHE MIGHT BE HAVING AN AFFAIR WITH SOME ONE ELSE OR JUST THE AFFAIRS HAVE STARTED WHICH MAY OR MAY NOT BUILD UP IN FUTURE. THATS WHY MY WIFE IS NOT INTERESTED IN RETURNING BACK TO MY HOUSE AND DOESNT CALL ME UP ALSO. BUT SHE IS NOT READY TO GIVE ME DIVORCE.
WHAT SHALL I DO NOW. I`M VERY DISTURBED. PLEASE ADVICE.
