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I am a Hindu boy very soft, helping nature and sensitive, (34) married (registered on 1^st Oct 2009 under special marriage act) to a Muslim 3 years back due to this we never had support from my in laws as they were against our marriage and also not financially strong, but still I used to help them financially, we had only support from my parents and relatives my parents and also they have gifted her all type of gold ornaments, I have taken insurance in her name and son name, and I have taken medical insurance in her name and son name, and also I was saving RD in my sons name for the future education. We have a baby boy of 2 years, as the baby was born in 7 ½ month at that time both wife and son were hospitalized for 3 weeks, though her parents knew they dint even visited or helped, as there were no one to take care she was staying in my house my mom, dad, brothers and relatives were taking care of my wife and son and I used to be there on every weekends, on Jan 6^th 2013 she simply started an issue and fought with me and went back to her home along with our baby by giving a statement to the police station "that she don’t want to live with me", (She removed all her jewels and gave it to me but she carried all her dress and my sons dress to her home), and when I called her she is asking me to convert to Muslim, so that she will come back. i can’t live without my wife and son, is there any way that I could get my wife and son back. I am ready to take a separate house so that she can follow her religion and I will follow mine, but still she is telling that her parents will not send her with me unless I am converted to Muslim. I want both of them in my life I love her so much. Kindly advice what I could do.

Its 45 days now I want to see my son and wife but I don’t know the address where is she staying neither she is not calling me on phone also. Kindly help me.

She knows that I love her so much and I can’t live without her and I would do anything for her. I think she is taking advantage of this; yes I am ready to do anything for her except covert to Muslim.

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Nadeem Qureshi (Advocate/ nadeemqureshi1@gmail.com) 21 February 2013

Dear Querist

if you want legal remady you have right to file a RCR case against her u/s 22 of Special marriage Act.

22. Restitution of conjugal rights.- When either the husband or the wife has, without reasonable excuse, withdrawn from the society of the other, the aggrieved party may apply by petition to the district court for restitution of conjugal rights, and the court, on being satisfied of the truth of the statements made in such petition, and that there is no legal ground why the application should not be granted, may decree restitution of conjugal rights accordingly. 2[ Explanation.- Where a question arises whether there has been reasonable excuse for withdrawal from the society, the burden of providing reasonable excuse shall be on the person who has withdrawn from the society.]

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Bineesh (BA) 22 February 2013

hello sir,

can she and her family convert my son to muslim without my knowledge??

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Originally posted by : Bineesh
	I am a Hindu boy very soft, helping nature and sensitive, (34) married (registered on 1st Oct 2009 under special marriage act) to a Muslim 3 years back due to this we never had support from my in laws as they were against our marriage and also not financially strong, but still I used to help them financially, we had only support from my parents and relatives my parents and also they have gifted her all type of gold ornaments, I have taken insurance in her name and son name, and I have taken medical insurance in her name and son name, and also I was saving RD in my sons name for the future education. We have a baby boy of 2 years, as the baby was born in 7 ½ month at that time both wife and son were hospitalized for 3 weeks, though her parents knew they dint even visited or helped, as there were no one to take care she was staying in my house my mom, dad, brothers and relatives were taking care of my wife and son and I used to be there on every weekends, on Jan 6th 2013 she simply started an issue and fought with me and went back to her home along with our baby by giving a statement to the police station "that she don’t want to live with me", (She removed all her jewels and gave it to me but she carried all her dress and my sons dress to her home), and when I called her she is asking me to convert to Muslim, so that she will come back. i can’t live without my wife and son, is there any way that I could get my wife and son back. I am ready to take a separate house so that she can follow her religion and I will follow mine, but still she is telling that her parents will not send her with me unless I am converted to Muslim. I want both of them in my life I love her so much. Kindly advice what I could do. Its 45 days now I want to see my son and wife but I don’t know the address where is she staying neither she is not calling me on phone also. Kindly help me. She knows that I love her so much and I can’t live without her and I would do anything for her. I think she is taking advantage of this; yes I am ready to do anything for her except covert to Muslim.

Dear soft, helping nature and sensitive:

Before taking any step should think.

But I really do not know where did all the love go.. Into thin air, or was there love in the first place.

She is acting upon the wishes of her parents, now asking you to convert to islam.

They though minoirty, are a big community, she has gone back to her parents place, the only way out for you is convert to islam, as true love knows no bounds.