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pramod (master)     29 August 2011

Mutual divorce

sir/madem

i married on dec 2009 in bangalore and got registered it in ghaziabad, up on jan 2 2010.

As it was a love marrige and every thing was going quite well except the parents because the parents of girls side has not shown any intrest in our marriege but my family accepted it. after few months there was some dispute between my parents and my wife, because my family members wants to teach her the customs of my home as we both are hindu, but there are some custom difference between both of us. she is from gorakhpur and i am from bihar.

but i some how managed it and tried to convince her that now this is her home and she has to act like others doing in this home, but she neither felt sorry for that and not even tried to talk to parents that what ever happend and any thing if i have done against you i am sorry for that, but she was good to me and it was going quite well, but some times i see sad face of my wife so i tried to contact her parents and the communication between she and her mother started and then one day she wished to go to her parents. i agreed and she went to her parents on 01 aug but now they are not allowing me to talk to her and even she is also not calling me what problem it may i dont dont know, i told her that i am coming to take on 07 sep. should i go or not because i dont want to leave her. once i got a chance to talk to her at her parents and she was saying to quit this relationship because she does not want to cope up with the family and will not come back



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pru (sw eng)     29 August 2011

You have to be very carefull here. Your case is in a critical stage and may turn into DV and dowry case.

Handel it very carefully.

Also always try to keep the proofs that you have not thrwn out her. (record phone calls and use emails for communication so that those cn be used as proof).

Always be softsopken and never argue with your inlaws.

pru (sw eng)     29 August 2011

Try to solve matter with talks. If she is asking for divorce repeatatively , dont force her to come back and end marriage it gracefully.

Also if any time you feel that they are going to file DV and 498a case. File and RCR case before that.

As you still want her back. if you are filing RCR dont put to many conditions. Just say you want her to live with you

pru (sw eng)     29 August 2011

Also please not that you or your will cannot file divorce before one year of marriage as per law

Shonee Kapoor (Legal Evangelist - TRIPAKSHA)     30 August 2011

Pramod,

 

Please don't fear about the cases, they don't happen in every marriage. Try to resolve the matters amicably. The alternative is life wasted in courts.

 

Regards,

 

Shonee Kapoor

harassed.by.498a@gmail.com

galsober@yahoo.co.in (def)     31 August 2011

Also putting RCR at this stage will definitely ruin ur marriage.

Its very critical stage 4 u. Move with open heart & tremendous love for the lady. Try ur best to talk 2 her separately & bring out the bottom of the problem with her. Again try ur best to resolve the differences....give her enough space....A small mistake at this point will create mis trust between both of u.

Then if required, take help of the elders...

Her genuine demands shud be addressed....But if u sense that they are bent upon unleashing terror upon u... then no option left other than fight back


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