My firend want to suicide what can i do stop her.

Dear varun

if she is ready to divorce her husband and her family is not supporting then she should left the home and live seprately and filed divorce before Hon'ble court with mentioning the real facts of harrassment.

in betwwen if she committed sucide then you and her husband both may be punished as abetor of this sucide.

then it is my opinion if you are in touch with you and you are a real frind of her then filed divorce petition gainst her husband if she is no able to live with him.

Dear friend..

it is noted that even if your friend is suffereing so much she is still living a in her in-laws house for the sake of her child.  I also appreciate YOU for supporitng her through her rough phase of life.  I suggest you to take her to any counsellor n try to make her strong and move ahead with life.  If her husband and other in-laws are harrassing her for many reasons including that of illigitamate relations with you, though she is committed for her marital life, then there is no point of living there and think of suicide.  according to me Living such harrassed life is equal to suicide itself.  Hence i would like to suggest you that stay with her, support her throughout this rough time, file a divorce case on the grounds she mentions,  and bring her out the trouble, then only you can justify yourself as a true friend. 

You must firstly Try to avert her suicidal insticts by telling that if she is alive she has a lot of options a whole of things to do , to fight and not to give up on life for One man alone..let her also help herself try to take her to a good counsellor to first cure her depression only after which she can stand for herself..its no use giving advice right now as people who are depressed get onto one track mindset and its really difficult coping up..spend more time in healing and after that think for other options to divorce fight or stay in the same situation but more boldly if only she can..

good luck..

I am agree with Mr mahendra. Here the first question is how to stop her to do an act which in not only wrong in the eye of law but also in the eye of religion. one must thank god for the life given by the him and instead of ending must face all the situations god wants us to face. You must take her to good counsellor and any thing else once she become stable in life.

she needs a pshychologist.

Thanks To all..

Just told my family about it.They are angry on me . They said I should have stop talking her when she told me that she want to suicide.

yeah tht has always been the most steady and stereotyped reaction from our parents..i dont mean they are wrong but they follow some thumb rules like.."dusre ke fate me tang nahi adana." as it may spoil ur life too..but have some conversation with her help her some time convey her tht ur going out of way to help her and she need to follow ur advice else ull be losing too by helping her ,ie ur parents may get more upset abt this..do all what u can to save her best is take her to a counsellor a psychologist who can help her cope with this..tell her to meditate , go for yoga , do exercise or just breathe in and out daily in morning or teach some kids or help the slums..her pain is nothing compared to those people on street she must realise and life is precious no matter what..just give it a try but remember parents naraz naa ho jyada ..

Take her to a good counselling centre/ mediation centre and also to a psychiarist .  Also try to post pone the thing of suicide til her son's marriage. 

Yes  i will take her to good counselling centre.First need to get rid of his husband and her family . they are emotionally black mailing her

Mr.Varun bhai, if we are doing a noble thing we should not think twice though ppl criticize you, one or the other day ppl realise that you were right n they were wrong.  in case of your parents, its natural that they behave in such a way, i think its because they are not aware of her condition very well nor they might have met her any time.  Just try to convince ur parents that she is your good friend and needs your shoulder at this time, if your parents loves you then am sure thy will understand YOUR NOBLE DEED...just try to show her how life is beautiful, show her that her son needs her until he settles in life.  try to show her that Life is a precious thing and we dont have right to end it meaningless THAT TOO FOR OTHERS....LIFE MUST BE LIVED ON SOME PRINCIPLES AND WE SHOULD MAKE OUR DEATH SO GREAT THAT PPL WILL TAKE NOTE OF OUR ABSENCE.....

ALL THE BEST....

Thanks to All

Please post all your comment here .I will show this to her May be she get some  inspiration from these comment .

She is your friend.So Support her.Make her understand that her suicide will be beneficail to her husband.Cheaters dont deserve anybody's life.

For depression ,take her to a counsellor a psychologist .Talk to her and show this thread .Told her that When someone walk out your life, let them. They are just making more room for someone better to walk in.Don’t regret ever having the relationship. Be grateful for the experience and everything that you have learnt.Just move on.And be happy .

But her husband black mail her By saying  Who will marry Our son if you will leave him.And he loves her will go mad if she leaves her.

he never said these in last 17 year. But now suddenly he starte to say that he loves her most and will die without her. She was not convinced what does he say now. She is determined to her deciosn to leave him or suicide.

 

Would if any of you say anything abt his husband Who now relaized her importance when he became sure that she will leave him for sure .

 

And One more thing is it right to focre  some one to live with him By saying him that I will die if you will leave me