Dear Experts,
I am a serving defence personal married since Nov 2005. My wife is in Govt job since Jan 2008 and staying with her parents. I have jointly brought a house and a plot in her area. As we are a child less couple and gone through unsuccessful IVF treatment in Army Hospital, after this my wife refused to go for further treatment for infirtility and start putting pressure on me for illegally adopting a kid from any hospital which i refused and told her that we will go fore sarogate mother but nither she, nor her parents ready for sarogate. Now she lodge a complaint to Chief of Naval Staff and National Woman Commision for dowary demand and domestic violence. Here i want to tell you that now i am leaving service in 2014 and my pension and other retairments formality form required her signature, which she is refusing but she is my nominy in my service documents and her signature is required for family pension. Please advice me what should I do now?