Need help

marriage is an institution and is also a reunion of not only boy and girl but the families too. therefore it mandates that there should be a general agreement on this by both the families. this is very essential for a peaceful married life of the boy and girl, it's need and intensity cannot be realised at this stage but later on this assumes great significance. therefore it is advisable to endeavour to drive a peaceful coord among all affected parties . for this purpose you may take the help of common friends, relatives, counsellorts and elders. dont do anything in haste for which u may have to repent later on.  best of luck

I was in your situation some years back.  It is a complicated situation.  You have no locus standi to take the help of any institution unless the girl is on your side firmly.  Sometimes girls in order to save the so-called honor of their parents firmly stand on their side, while shedding buckets full of tears for people like you and me. They even file police cases against you that you are threatening, forcing her to marry you without her consent for which, again she will firmly stand in favor of her parents in order to live for the honor, shedding crocodile tears for you.  So unless girl comes out firmly, my suggestion is do not initiate any action from your side.  It is worthless to take risk for such girl if she does not want to take risk to leave her parents and lead marital life with you forgetting them.

If she comes out openly and stands courageously for your love, take her away and marry her if you and she are majors, which I think you both are because you both are employed.  But if she lives in confusion whether she should accept you for being in love with you or whether her parents' honor is more important for her than her love for you, then forget.  You should only stand for such girls who can take risk of leaving their parents behind and look forward for a happy married life with you presuming with hope that some years down the parents will accept her marriage with you and reunite.

brothers.... if she is not able to communicate with me ..how i will be knowing wts her current status.... its very tough situation... i cant sit and relax... wna do something

 It is in this situation pandits give suggestions.  If you love somebody let her go.  If she comes back, she is yours.  If she doesn't, she was never yours.  Would you accept?