Originally posted by : Sudhir Kumar |
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I reterate
"please give full facts."
Anyone having slightest sympathy with you shall not be attempting any reply based on no facts.
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I have got married in may 2015.
everything was going very well for starting 4-5 months but than she started demaning things like
when she went to her friends bday party she saw an expensive mobile with her friend so she asked me if she has expensive mobile than why cant i. i said u have four wheeler, does she have.
than my brother has bought bed and cupboard and an activa on his own. than she saw that and told me that his wife will get this things i said so what he has bought his own. so she said that i also want that because both the wifes my and my brother should have same things. i told her that i have four wheeler, he dont have
i have AC in my room he dont have, I have computer, i have my own bike we have an activa my mother is using that. than whats the meaning of buying all those. but this was not her words its her father and her sister who were teaching her to do all those things
we have given her new clothes every month, this is the thing her sister didnt like. and women cant keep anything in their stomach. she was telling each and every thing of our house to her home.
actually her father is not financially good and he has to marry his son yet so he has done this trick to extract money from us.
we have tried to fulfill almost all her demands but we cant do everything
in january my father told us that a family is comming to see my brother to fix his engagement. my wife was just first year passout and my brothers fiancee was triple graduate and working woman
so when she came to know that she told me to inform to my brothers fiancee not to work after marriage. i said i cant do that bcos 1st thing that they are going to leave separatly (till also my brother is living separatly out of station due to his job )
so she told that even she wants to do job, than my father said that bring the degree than after she can do job
initially when we went to see her she told us that she has done BA with hindi but when after marriage i asked for degree for passport than she told me that she dont have degree. and when i checked her certificates found that she has just FY pass out
than she told us that ok if not than open a beauty parlour for her we stricly said no to her
she has fear that younger daughter is working and elder is sitting home, it effects her ego and she fear that her respect will be down.
so on the same day when they were up to come, she went away to her home with her brother saying that she will return in 8 days
when after 10 days we call her she said she is not going to come. her father has put all our mobile numbers in rejection list and had never called us to know the problem
in may they came to our house fought with us and took all her stuff with them
let me inform you that we have not taken even a single rupee dowry, the girl has come with empty hand with no jewellary.
than she gave complaint in P.S in june. we have been called off by mahila daksh*ta samiti where they told that they want to finish the relation and want divorce and we told that we dont want divorce and we want to take her back
she refused to come and filed FIR on july 22
police inquiry came to us in oct 2016. they record the statements of all of us. they also told us that even they also know that this case is fake but they have to follow the law
on jan 4 2017 we applied for the AB and easily got it and next date is given of 3rd march
they wrote the name of my mother father my self my brother and my paternal aunty and uncle
i asked for defamation bcos my brother is not living with us since aug 2010. and he met my wife in marriage only and after that in diwali for one day than even his name was dragged so i asked wheater he can file case on them