Hi All,
Thanks for all lawyers for continuous support to men and women struggling in marriage well.
My story is I married in 2011 and now I have a 2years kid (male) . from the day when I married there is not even continuous one month of good life as always there was a fight between my wife and my mother, Then after so many fighting's I use to make them convenience and living together. one day midnight she started fighting with me as she asked me come walk outside while raining with kid when the kid was around 1 year, then I said its raining and started fighting which was non-stop till mid night 2.00 A.M. then I went to office , then next day my mother stopped talking to her , then no idea what happened she beaten my mother , then my parents decided to live separately then asked me to arrange a Ist floor to be vacated, I was also in the thinking that if they live separately then I will have some peace full mind, after that my mother use to take care of kid whenever the kid cries and the same process going till now , my mother taking care of kid till after noon and I will take after coming to home from office. Now after one year my mother asked to provide the ground floor house as she cannot climb the stairs and asked to us live in first floor house, now my wife started fighting for that also as she don't want to give ground floor to my parents. Moreover the house is in my name and paying loan emi from my salary, Even I have asked her to go and live in separate house then she told me that it will be difficult to take care of kid if we go and live separately. Now yesterday night again she started with bad words when kid was crying and my mom came and took the kid. Now she is saying that she can't come to different home and also not leave the ground floor to my parent, asking me to live nearby office if require and also told that she will never give divorce.
Financial situation:
Ours is own house which was purchased before marriage by selling the old house which was given by my grandfather to my father, I have a housing loan of RS10Lakh and getting around CTC of 5lakh per annum working in shifts, Also another shop which was in my father name given by my grandfather was sold and kept the money in their name as FD to manage their expenses.
Also my wife got the property from their parent through settlement between her and her brother. one important thing is she is not working and her education is not enough to get job.
Evidences and documents:
What are the evidences or documents that can be collected as reading many cases in this club no idea when the marriage will turn as divorce.
Need your thoughts and advises:
I am also agree that my mother also do some mistake but more over she is taking care of my kid when I am at office and even I just can't leave/ignore her. Considering all these situations please advise your thoughts as impact of going to file for Divorce, if situation goes worst and what are all the circumstances that I may face If maintenance and lump sum amount to be given and what would be the lump sum/maintenance that court may declare as I am working in Private company and the salary would not be the same until retirement.
