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I am an OCI wife who has been tortured by husband and his family memebers for proerty settlement as per australian family law. I was married in INDIA as per HMA and our matrimony contined in india for 8 years till aug 2006. We both were domiciled in india at the time of marriage. We migrated to australia in 2007 and my husband acquired the australian citizenship in 2009 and i got in 2010. My husband is a mechanical engineer from A very recognised uni in inida But he always preferred a low paying jobs for less stress and enjoy. And so most of the time i had to play a role of the bread earner as he always had an excuse of low salary. His demand for money continues in the matrimony time in india and also in australia. In australia he also took the depression medications. He has been very cruel to me as well as my parents through out our matrimony. He also had lots of conflicts to various people and organisations of society in india and in australia. Due to his un reasonable demand of money and his issues in the society i was very nervous and stressed. Whenever i had discussed this matter with his elder brother (who is suppose to be running their family matters as his parents are old) he always told me to keep up with that and keep supporting his brother due to his mental illness. This unreasonable and irresponsible behaviours from my inlaw's side also made me quite nervous and stressed. Hence in 2011 i left my husband and kept on living alone for some time and then with my parents. The issue is since last one year both my husband and his brother are after me to settle the property as per australian family law and give quite a lot of moeny to my husband as well as life time of spousal support since he can not earn . I have offered them to settle the divorce in India on mutual consent basis and i had also offered them some amount to settle it peacefully and as mentioned in the section 24 of the HMA. While this discussion i left australia and travelled to india to get more details.
My questsion is 1) do i have to follow the australian family law or my case should be as per the HMA and the divorce and maintenance and property division should be as per the HMA. 2) Is their act of asking money from my hard earn money qualifies as dowery and section 498 can be used against them? 3) What should be the best approach to progress my case.
Please help. I am really very nervous and looking for a guidance from all the esteemed lawyers in india. Thank you.