I got married in the year 2004, From the marriage I have problems with my wife. She was stayed with me about 3 to 4 months after that she gone to her father’s house then she gave a birth to a child in the year 2005. She was not returned. We tried our best but it is failed. Then I have done an unofficial marriage in the year 2007. Then she filed 498a, maintenance in the year 2007 after knowing this. Maintenance is awarded in the year 2008. The 498a is still continuing. They stopped taking maintenance after 2 years. Now I have a child with my second wife. The boy is 4 years old. We are staying away from my parents and all other relatives. We are very happy now.
But what about my second wife/ sons identity and my properties. They are not interested to give divorce. Please guide me what to do.